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People Divulge Whether Or Not They'd Date A Porn Star

Reddit user Throwaway4561947373 asked: 'Would you ever date a porn star? Why or why not?'

Sex work is work. Honest work.

It feels like the opinion on this issue is slowly turning.

So that opens us all to a lot of progress.

But is it progress in every area of life?

Let's discuss porn stars.

We support them. We support their work.

But would we accept one in the family?

Would any of us enter into a romance with one?

Or someone akin to them?


Redditor Throwaway4561947373 wanted to discuss everyone's thoughts on dating options, so they asked:

"Would you ever date a pornstar? Why or why not?"

I did briefly date a porn star.

It was fun. But I'm way too jealous.

Schedule

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"I dated a stripper. Her schedule was the real deal breaker. Well, that and her cocaine addiction, but that's beside the point."

C-C-C-Coolah

"The schedule thing was kind of nice at first because I value my alone time, but after a while the showing up at my house at 530am before I went to work was starting to make me feel really gross."

C-C-C-Coolah

No Mas

"I dated a stripper once. Craziest couple of months of my life. I still have no idea how old she is or what her actual life story is/was. The sex was shockingly tame, but she did have awesome ti*s. Not a chapter in my life I’d like to revisit tho haha."

Climate_Face

"I had a roommate who was dating a stripper and eventually dating her 'show partner' at the same time. It was a very wild 5 months where he got almost no sleep (schedule thing, not sex thing) and eventually said 'no mas.' Turned out there was too much of a good thing."

ksuwildkat

Wild

"I don’t think I personally could. Little too wild of a lifestyle/profession for me."

JessiePeteWhite

"Also, just imagining dealing with the fans that come from dating a regular celebrity makes me feel uneasy. The kind of people who'd seek out a pornstar in public would be a whole other level of cringe."

Poignant_Porpoise

"I wonder how you envisage their lifestyle. Plenty of them live normal lives and just go to work like anyone else. And especially with how many are independent these days the work is a lot more in their control and safer."

Athaelan

Patreon

"I dated a girl who sold nudes on Patreon back in the day. When we first started dating I knew she had nudes up on deviant art, bit didn't know about the Patreon. She never liked going out during the day except if we went to the movies. One day I got the tines for the different theaters mixed up."

"Got there, the next shoeing was in an hour, so we said f**k it and went to the cafeteria (the theater was attached to a mall) and ate some food. Some random chubby dude comes out excited and out of breath calling her by her handle saying he buys a bunch of her pictures and he couldn't believe he was meeting her."

"We were both frozen. I wasn't sure if I was supposed to scare the guy off or let her try to make another sale while she thought I was gonna be pi**ed that she didn't tell me about her Patreon. We laughed about it later."

AshyBoneVR4

About the $$$

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"Thought about dating a stripper but even outside the club when we just hang out as friends she’s very monetary about everything. If I have to pay a service fee to hang out with you then I’d rather just not."

Keyguin

Always follow the money.

That's where the truth is.

Work

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"No, because I'd feel like I was asking them to work whenever I wanted to have sex. I never said it was a rational thought, people."

Froticlias

Do what you Gotta!

"I dated a porn star for a bit. he was straight but did mostly gay shoots because it's higher paid. when he would tell me he had a good day at work it usually would mean that everyone was being cooperative or something funny happened."

night-gloss

"I have a friend that’s a porn star, and she said sex on set is very different from sex with someone you love/care about."

Gogh619

"That makes sense, but I could still imagine feeling like you’ve been touched and simulated so much that doing it more seems overwhelming, even if emotionally you would want to do it. And if you’re a guy you might not have much left in the tank so to speak."

Leet_Noob

For Love

"It's easy to say I wouldn't judge but in all honesty pretty sure many people wouldn't be comfortable, some would be I guess but most wouldn't. I think it all falls down to when you are dating them if you are truly in love enough to allow this or well maybe you like they do that anyway, it's really hard to say in real life."

DemonCyborg27

Lack of Potential

"Definitely not. Whenever I've dated someone, I've been at least open to the possibility of it potentially turning into marriage and a family; I would not want my kids to have to deal with that. Can you imagine going through your teens, with people sending you clips of your mum doing whatever to and with whoever? Your teenage years can be a tough enough experience by their own merit; let alone adding in that crap."

J-in-the-UK

A Current Affair

"A former pornstar and I wouldn't have an issue, we all have a past after all. An active pornstar though would be a serious no from me. I know I wouldn't be able to handle my partner being intimate with another person while they are with me, it being their job wouldn't matter."

votemarvel

Well to each their own.

Just be nice about people's choices.

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