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People Divulge The Parts Of Women’s Bodies They Love That Women Hate

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It's a sad truth that just about all women find their bodies objectified or, for better or worse, the unwanted subject of conversation.

One of the many reasons why too many women are self-conscious about their bodies and suffer from sometimes crippling body image issues.

More often than not, women often find themselves most self-conscious about a part of their body or appearance most people will never notice, or even see.

But much to their surprise, sometimes it is that very thing they hate most about themselves that others might find most beautiful about them.


Redditor Covenant9er4653 was curious to hear which parts of a woman's body men loved the most, which women tend to hate, leading them to ask:
"Men of Reddit, what is something women hate about their bodies that you actually love?"

Aging Gracefully

"Everything that has to do with getting older."

"When my wife and I got married, we were obviously younger and in our 20s."

"Although never thin, I was more slender."

"My wife, 5’9 and legs for days and just banging body."

"Now? "

"I’m not as thin (same as her) we have two kids, and I find her sexier now more than ever."

"In our almost decade together, we have slept on a floor, used change for gas and had our electricity turned off 3-4 times for non payment."

"She’s my Ride or Die."

"She has more of a tummy now, bigger boobs, maybe doesn’t shave like she used to or wear skimpy lingerie outfits randomly."

"BUT."

"I wouldn’t trade it for the world."

"We have grown older together and I honestly couldn’t find anything in this world that still turns me on as the certain way my wife runs her fingers down my back or how she looks naked."

"And it’s because she’s mine."

"Not in a possessive sexist way."

"But in a, I’m the luckiest guy in the world that this beautiful human wants to spend the rest of their life with me (and have sex with me)."

"Hopefully this isn’t too long winded."

"Long story short…..girls spend tons of time worrying about getting older."

"Age isn’t always a detractor."- Ok_Animator_9218

Sometimes being "cheeky' pays off.

"My ex-girlfriend always complained about the size of her cheeks and how she looked like Quico (a character from an old Mexican TV series)."

"For me she looked gorgeous, I loved to kiss and caress her cute round face."- Raul_H2000

Presumably, He's Also One Of The Only People Who Sees Them

"My wife was very self-conscious about her inverted nipples, but I adore them."- nsfbc

Beauty Truly Does Come From Within

"A bit longer than others, but I have a full story to tell which might help someone."

"A few years ago, my lady got a breast cancer."

"We live in a country with high level medical facilities, and the doctor told us at the very first meeting that we were here to heal, no reason to think otherwise."

"But her cancer is genetic."

"It means if she kept her breasts, her risk of having a new cancer would be very high."

"So it's clear for both of us, she got a mastectomy."

"She now has no breast anymore."

"She just has two big scars on the chest."

"On her side, she f*cking hates her body."

"She is scared as hell to wear anything that could reveal her scars."

"She also got some weight during the treatment, and she is pissed at that too."

"But I f*cking love her."

"I choose to love with this woman, and it does not matter if she had lost her breasts, her legs or her face, I will still love her."

"I will fricking love those scars until my dying breath, because, to me, it means she survived."- Vitrebreaker

Glorious Imperfections

"Uneven breasts."

"Adds character and makes paying attention to each one a separate adventure."- Inevitable_Shift1365

"Probably a lot of stuff but something in particular is like minor 'imperfections' or whatever you would call them."

"A woman I used to work with had a thing where it was like her teeth didn't quite line up like normal (I think maybe a mild crossbite) and I found it weirdly attractive."- tasteful_tomfoolery

They're Easier To Appreciate When You Don't Have To Deal With Them Yourself...

"My wife’s boobs."

"She hates them with a passion and I cannot figure out why."

"They are perfect."- Reddit

Androgyny Is A Wonderful Thing

"I love sleepy, set-back bedroom eyes."

"And I love boyish clothes on girls."

"So hot."

"I also like when a woman has a deeper voice."

"God it’s hot."- Slurpydurpy711

You Never Know What Turns Them On...

"I was always very insecure about my hip dips until my boyfriend told me he loved them."

"I was standing in front of him one day and he just said 'I love the way your hips go in a little there, it makes your butt so cute, it's my favorite' and I was shocked, honestly."

"I used to spend hours watching videos about how to exercise them away, creams that would fill them in, and other ridiculous horsesh*t that would never work."

"He's somehow found every insecurity I have and told me how attractive it is before he ever even knew I was insecure."- trash_bin_84

Getting A Little Scientific

"Maybe a little too clinical or intimate for this thread but I really appreciate unique labia and I find it absolutely heartbreaking that there is so much widespread insecurity about this that there are cosmetic surgeries to 'fix' 'imperfect' labia."

"Past girlfriends and flings who had more prominent or 'unconventional' labia were dreadfully insecure about it and some went as far as to be absolutely astounded that I’d compliment them during/after sex because a past partner hated it or was very cruel and callous about it."

"Absolutely gorgeous."

"One of the most pernicious and evil beauty/porn standards out there."

"As long as hygiene is well-accounted for, there’s no such thing as a labia and vulva that are better or worse than any others."

"It’s not ever crossed my mind to compare or critique what’s down there and I always speak out about this when my friends say some stupid or insensitive sh*t."- e-co-terrorist

And Always Handle Them With Love...

"They're called love handles for a reason."- devilthedankdawg

It's very easy to think ill of ourselves, particularly in the judging eyes of others.

But we were given our bodies and appearance for a reason.

And if we embrace all that is unique about us, chances are all others will find that beautiful.

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