Host of the Matty in the Morning Show on KISS 108, Boston, Massachusetts, Matt Seigel, walked off his show after being told he can't make jokes about child actress and pop singer Demi Lovato's non-binary identity.
On May 19, 2021, Demi Lovato posted a heartfelt video to Twitter, sharing their non-binary identity with their fans and supporters.
You can watch it here:
Every day we wake up, we are given another opportunity & chance to be who we want & wish to be. I\u2019ve spent the majority of my life growing in front of all of you\u2026 you\u2019ve seen the good, the bad, & everything in between.pic.twitter.com/HSBcfmNruo— Demi Lovato (@Demi Lovato) 1621408200
In Lovato's video, they explain:
"I want to take this moment to share something very personal with you."
"Over the past year and a half I have been doing some healing and self reflection work."
"And through this work, I have had the revelation that I identify as non-binary."
"With that said, I will now be changing my pronouns to they/them."
"I feel that this represents the fluidity I feel in my gender expression, and allows me to feel most authentic and true to the person I both know I am and still am discovering."
Lovato added the influence fame had on their personal journey.
Not only has my life been a journey for myself, I was also living for those on the other side of the cameras.— Demi Lovato (@Demi Lovato) 1621408201
I\u2019m doing this for those out there that haven\u2019t been able to share who they truly are with their loved ones. Please keep living in your truths & know I am sending so much love your way xox— Demi Lovato (@Demi Lovato) 1621408202
On Matt Seigel's morning show—where he discusses pop culture and current events with Billy Costa, cohost Lisa Donovan and producer Rebekah "Bex" Maroun—he complained about being told to stop mocking Demi Lovato, non-binary identity and coming out by his boss.
Seigel launched a rant claiming he "told it like it is."
He said:
"I was just told, and it's nothing personal because I like my boss, but he just called and said I have to stop talking about what I've been talking about this morning."
"This is why I got rich. Ok. Because I told it like it is to my listeners for 40 bleeping years. They pulled the plug on me and said you can't talk about what you're talking about. I like my boss personally, I do. I'm very fond of him. He's been very nice to me."
"It's not personal, it's professional. He said he doesn't want me talking about this."
"Today I was 'anti-wokeness' and I can't do that, so basically, what I'm told is, I can talk about light, funny things like where the Jonas Brothers are going to be but I can't do what I really want to do, which is just be a funny comic and tell it like it is."
"So I'm ending my portion of the radio show right now. It has been a hell of a run, but I think it's coming to an end."
You can hear Seigel here:
\u2018Matty, out\u2019: Audio clip of Matt Siegel (Matty in the Morning) @Kiss108 apparently quitting live on the air this morning (via Kevin Doyle)pic.twitter.com/YToNubWkJr— Mike Saccone (@Mike Saccone) 1621435987
In a follow-up interview with Boston.com, Seigel doubled down on his transphobic statements during his radio show.
"I'm against her binary thing; I think she's a troubled woman and a lot of young people are taking her seriously and it bothers me."
"But of course, it's a comedy show, so I did it in the context of jokes."
"We were having fun with it, and my boss called up and said that I'd crossed the line and they didn't want me talking about it anymore."
"I responded by saying, 'If I can't talk about what I'm thinking at this point in my career, I don't want to be on the radio anymore'."
He also disclosed this wasn't the first time he's been asked to not talk about certain topics.
Regardless of Seigel's outburst, Lovato received an outpouring of love and support.
So proud of you, Demi! You\u2019ve always been special to the LGBTQIA community. Thank you for living your truth!— YOCISCO (@YOCISCO) 1621526852
Luv, you are so valid! Don\u2019t let anyone tell you different. These are new times where we have voices that are being heard from above the hate. Anyone trying to invalidate you are just upset that their hate is now a minority, their power is taken away. Love you always, stay safepic.twitter.com/j0aAMw87Ds— Shay \ud83d\udc9b (@Shay \ud83d\udc9b) 1621436132
I know you'll never see this, but thank you. I grew up with you in disney shows and movies, and eventually I came to the conclusion of my own identity as a they/them trans nonbinary and seeing that you share the identity with me has meant so much to me to learn. Thank you.— Renisence (@Renisence) 1621539913
I am so proud of you for living your truth , as a non-binary person myself I have felt the struggles of coming out as non-binary and using they/them pronouns. However the more I embrace who I am the more I love myself.— Detective Jo| TAKING A SOCIAL MEDIA BREAK| blm (@Detective Jo| TAKING A SOCIAL MEDIA BREAK| blm) 1621529171
Congratulations Demi on your coming out. We all love you the same as before for all the same reasons. Stay strong and remember you are loved— Andrea Maynard \ud83c\udf08\ud83c\udf08\ud83c\udf08\ud83c\udff4\udb40\udc67\udb40\udc62\udb40\udc73\udb40\udc63\udb40\udc74\udb40\udc7f\ud83c\uddec\ud83c\udde7\ud83c\udf08\ud83c\udf08\ud83c\udf08 (@Andrea Maynard \ud83c\udf08\ud83c\udf08\ud83c\udf08\ud83c\udff4\udb40\udc67\udb40\udc62\udb40\udc73\udb40\udc63\udb40\udc74\udb40\udc7f\ud83c\uddec\ud83c\udde7\ud83c\udf08\ud83c\udf08\ud83c\udf08) 1621537703
I'm Bisexual & couldn't be any prouder of another person 'coming out' into this scary ass world! \n\nThanks for sharing this personal news with us, the courage it must have taken is just melting my heart! Sending so much support to them @ddlovato \n\nMuch love coming ur way— Vicki (Vix) \u2764\ud83e\udde1\ud83d\udc9b\ud83d\udc9a\ud83d\udc99\ud83d\udc9c\ud83e\udd0e\ud83d\udda4\ud83e\udd0d (@Vicki (Vix) \u2764\ud83e\udde1\ud83d\udc9b\ud83d\udc9a\ud83d\udc99\ud83d\udc9c\ud83e\udd0e\ud83d\udda4\ud83e\udd0d) 1621418060
Seigel however...
.@eccommstudies faculty & pop culture, media expert Sharifa Simon-Roberts weighs in on radio host Matt Siegel\u2019s comments yesterday about Demi Lovato: "When someone tells you what pronoun they are using you have to respect that." @EmersonSOC @boston25https://www.boston25news.com/news/local-radio-show-host-matt-siegel-draws-attention-after-making-comments-about-demi-lovato/BLJT3NRTGZHK3FTCFXGHUSXM5I/\u00a0\u2026— Emerson College (@Emerson College) 1621522345
I will be the first to admit that I fumble on pronouns a lot, but I love my friends & vice-versa. When I make mistakes they\u2019re always super nice about it & I actively want to make them feel like they can be fully themselves. Why would u wanna deprive anybody of that?— bad snacks (@bad snacks) 1621538860
I think it IS time to get off the air Matty.\nMatt Siegel, \u2018Matty in the Morning\u2019 radio host, storms off the air after being warned about Demi Lovato comments https://www.bostonglobe.com/2021/05/19/metro/matt-siegel-matty-morning-radio-host-storms-off-air-after-being-warned-about-demi-lovato-comments/?event=event25\u00a0\u2026 via @BostonGlobe— Norrieaga she/ma'am (@Norrieaga she/ma'am) 1621474100
Matty Siegel's apology managed to not only STILL misgender Demi Lovato but also showed that hefinally feels he is above consequence. Real growth and understanding. \n\nHaven't head an apology that bad since it came from the Reds broadcast booth last year.— Gabriel Jay (@Gabriel Jay) 1621537544
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Seigel returned to the radio and apologized to his producer on Thursday.
Matt Siegel apologizes to his Exec. Producer @bexonair after his on-air verbal abuse Thursday morning.https://twitter.com/bostonradio2/status/1395802270743384071\u00a0\u2026— RAMP247 (@RAMP247) 1621621352
It's unknown if Seigel will remain on the air.
iHeart Radio has not commented on the situation.