Best friends for life! That's the motto. Friends before lovers because lovers come and go. The list of friendship mantras is endless. So you would think that means everyone sees their relationships with the people they call their closest, not blood related, chosen family will be endless. No expirations date. Sadly this is not always the case. Sometimes people do just come and go in your life, actually the older you get you realize most people come and go and ninety percent of the time, the going is the best thing that happens. It's not the happiest fact but it is often the sanest. Life is long, you can have many besties.
Redditor u/HairyFaithlessness was interested in hearing some the best reasons behind... Why don't you talk to your once "best friend" anymore? Pay attention for yourself in these. Red flags are afoot.
Just online buddies now....
We went to different colleges and neither of us are super good at remembering to use social media/messaging to keep up with people.
We still like each others' rare Facebook posts and Instagram posts, but since neither of us is much for initiating conversation, I feel this is how our friendship will be until either Facebook or one of us dies. Reddit
If I may, I suggest that you take the initiative to make the relationship what you want it to be. If you want to contact this person occasionally, do it. If the other person doesn't reciprocate, fine. But at least you'll have given it a shot.
I'm sure your friend would appreciate a simple message to show you care even if that's all that comes out of it. Acquiescinit
She sounds shady!
Didn't invite me to his wedding on his now wife's behest. Was his first ever, longest and most trusted friend to that point. AvianAzure
This happened to some people I know and the friend who wasn't invited straight up asked the groom if they really wanted to spend forever with a person who got jealous of their fiancèe being friends with other girls like that. The answer was no and the wedding was called off. (obviously after he thought about it awhile and considered things, but that was the question that made him start thinking). doyouwannabshowtime
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