Well this is upsetting. via All That Is Interesting

A Florida community is outraged after a veteran high school teacher was fired for calling a student by their preferred name rather than their legal name.
Melissa Calhoun had worked at Brevard County arts magnet school Satellite High School since 2019 and in the district for 12 years, but has been told her contract will not be renewed after the student's parent complained.
The student had asked to be called a name that aligned with their gender identity. Calhoun doing so is a violation of Florida state law, however, which requires parental consent to use a preferred name, even if it's just a nickname.
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The law, passed in 2023, requires parents give consent in writing on a “Parental Authorization for Deviation from Student’s Legal Name Form," and was part of far-right Republican Governor Ron DeSantis' "war on woke."
Many other states have similar legislation or proposed laws like Florida's, but Calhoun's case marks the first time a teacher has been fired for using a student's preferred name.
Calhoun's case has sparked outrage in the local community, where a petition to rehire her has been distributed and has gained nearly 45,000 signatures as of this writing.
Students have also staged protests, and Calhoun's colleagues have spoken publicly to vouch for her character and credentials.
One such colleague, Kristine Staniec, a media specialist at Satellite High School, told the school board last week:
“My colleague and child’s teacher was let go after just two weeks of internal review."
"There was no harm, no threat to safety, no malicious intent, just a teacher trying to connect with a student, and for that, her contract was not renewed.”
Calhoun's case has also inspired outrage and outpourings of support on social media.
The school board has maintained it made the right decision based on state law.
While his boss at the Department of Homeland Security (DHS), Kristi Noem, came hot off the heels of cosplaying again and demonstrating how not to hold a gun, the acting Director of Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) was modeling their human rights violations after online shopping.
Republican President Donald Trump's unconfirmed—nor congressionally vetted—acting Director of ICE, Todd Lyons, shared his dreams for the agency during the 2025 Border Security Expo, where private companies explored opportunities to profit from Trump’s mass deportations and rub elbows with Noem and Lyons.
In Lyons' perfect set up, ICE vans would crisscross neighborhoods carrying ICE agents doing swift abductions and deportations—just like Amazon's delivery services.
As reported by conference media attendee the Arizona Mirror, Lyons told the audience full of defense and security contractors:
"We need to get better at treating this like a business."
"Like [Amazon] Prime, but with human beings."
Lyons added he hoped ICE could utilize AI—or A1 as Trump's Education Secretary Linda McMahon refers to it—to "free up bed space" and "fill up airplanes."
Lyons' remarks quickly drew backlash.
The Executive Director of immigrant rights organization America’s Voice, Vanessa Cárdenas, issued an official statement after Lyons' remarks were reported and verified.
Cárdenas wrote:
"Human beings aren’t products to be wrapped, packaged, and shipped to fulfill an order. Yet the acting leader of ICE believes that is the ‘dream’ way for ICE to fulfill Trump’s order of mass deportation."
"Todd Lyons is the one who needs to be sent packing—and his comments encapsulate so much about this administration and their cruel and costly mass deportation agenda and worldview. Human beings, regardless of immigration status, aren’t Amazon packages."
"We’ve experienced the violence that accompanies the dehumanization of immigrants, and we know the danger within this sentiment and line of thinking. As the administration turbocharges its mass deportation agenda, they are viewing any immigrant without status as a target to toss aside and ship out of the country."
"Immigrants are hardworking taxpayers, dedicated parents, and dependable co-workers; they are community members, Dreamers, TPS holders and caregivers; they have dreams and due process rights and basic dignities that this administration refuses to acknowledge."
Others echoed Cárdenas' condemnation.
The acting director of ICE told the Border Security Expo that his dream is to make the deportation process “like (Amazon) Prime, but with human beings.” He added, “We need to get better at treating this like a business.” The depravity of these folks knows no bounds. t.co/sF7TqcqfF8
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— Nathan Kalman-Lamb (@nkalamb.bsky.social) April 9, 2025 at 1:39 PM
@hebagowayed/Bluesky
How about we start treating people like people? Is that too much to ask?
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— George Takei (@georgetakei.bsky.social) April 13, 2025 at 9:30 AM
@waitmanwbeorn/X
an incredibly dark thought i had is that what if bezos strikes a deal with the federal government to expand his amazon fleet and use some for a deportation squad.
— Marisa Kabas (@marisakabas.bsky.social) April 9, 2025 at 6:34 PM
God why does this despicable subhuman have a platform
— mar1957.bsky.social (@mar1957.bsky.social) April 9, 2025 at 7:05 PM
ICE: “Amazon Prime For Human Beings” If your business is rounding up folks, Shipping them places outside our coasts, To work in a hell hole as forced labor, That’s not Amazon. You’re a slave trader.
— Progressive Poet (@caligreg.bsky.social) April 9, 2025 at 5:11 PM
@eighthoften/Bluesky
Let’s compare #AmazonPrime to #ICE deportations: Prime: *You can track the package *It won’t arrive damaged, *You’ll almost always get exactly what you ordered & *if not, you can return the item immediately, for free, without a court order. None of that is true under #Homan ’s leadership of ICE.
— Jon Rosenfield (@jarosenfield.bsky.social) April 9, 2025 at 2:52 PM
These people are sick. They truly are Nazis
— jmdswim.bsky.social (@jmdswim.bsky.social) April 9, 2025 at 2:16 PM
His own "Wannsee Conference" statement....
— maria877.bsky.social (@maria877.bsky.social) April 9, 2025 at 2:03 PM
@antigonesdream/Bluesky
Lyons wasn't alone in wanting deportations to become big business, lining the pockets of the "friends of Donald" who contributed money to his campaign and bought memberships in Trump's golf resorts or Mar-a-Lago.
Donald Trump's "border czar," Tom Homan, told the crowd:
"We need to buy more beds, we need more airplane flights and I know a lot of you are here for that reason."
Touting the benefits of contracting out to private companies, Homan added:
"Let the badge and guns do the badge-and-gun stuff. Everything else, let’s contract out."
People are cringing after a video of MAGA artist Vanessa Horabuena speed-painting a portrait of President Donald Trump at the post-inauguration Liberty Ball resurfaced, highlighting the unsettling nature of what political scientists and casual observers have long described as Trump's cult of personality.
Horabuena raised more than $20,000 "to help cover the expenses of my team to attend this once in a lifetime event, the Liberty Ball just after the Inauguration where I will be painting live, 'Prayers For Our President,' to the song, 'The Blessing,' by Kari Jobe."
At the time, she said:
"God is going to do something very special through this relationship. This will give me the opportunity to open the doors for every christian in the ball to pray over our President and his family. It also allows me to usher in the presence of God, which no one will be able to deny."
"This is a huge part of what I have been working towards for over 8 years, and a vision the Lord gave me long before I ever met President Trump in person. God is faithful and opens all of the doors when we remain diligent and steadfast according to His Word."
Well, she did what she set out to do, and footage from the event shows her painting orgiastically, as if in a trance.
You can see her paint the portrait below.
@briantylercohen Idolatry?
People were disturbed because if it looks like a cult and sounds like a cult...
Despite his adultery, dishonesty, criminal behavior, and other moral failings, Trump claims to be a Christian and has actively sought and received the support of the evangelical community. He has delivered on his pledges to appoint conservative Christian judges to senior positions, a move that has been instrumental in restricting women’s reproductive rights and solidifying his base.
However, a subset of Christian nationalists, estimated to make up around 10% of the U.S. population, stands out by advocating for Christianity to be the official and dominant religion of the country.
Education Secretary Linda McMahon was undoubtedly mistaken when she referred to artificial intelligence as "A1"—as in A1 Steak Sauce—while answering a question about the use of AI in schools, prompting the company to seize the moment with a trolling post.
McMahon slipped up during her appearance at the ASU+GSV Summit on Tuesday. While discussing the state of modern education, she brought up the role of AI in today's classrooms.
What was really odd: She had correctly referred to artificial intelligence as "AI" just seconds prior.
She said:
“You know, [on the subject of] AI development. I mean, how can we educate at the speed of light if we don’t have the best technology around, you know, to do that?"
"I heard—I think it was a letter or a report that I heard this morning, I wish I could remember the source—but there’s a school system that’s gonna start making sure that first graders, or even pre-K, have A1 teaching every year starting that far down in the grades."
“And that’s a wonderful thing. Kids are sponges. They just absorb everything. Wasn’t all that long ago that it was, ‘We’re gonna have internet in our schools. Woo!’"
"Now, OK, let’s see A1 and how can that be helpful? How can it be helpful in one-on-one instruction? How can it be helpful in absorbing more information for those fast learners?"
"It can be more one-on-one directed. Those are the kinds of things and innovations that I wanna see continue to develop.”
You can hear what she said in the video below.
Why are they defunding the Department of Education again?
And not long afterward, A1 itself decided to troll McMahon via tweet after seeing an excellent marketing opportunity, writing:
"You heard her. Every school should have access to A.1."
The company's post included a graphic of A1 steak sauce that included the following text:
"Agree, best to start them early."
You can see the post and the graphic below.
A1
People couldn't get enough of the company's snark.
McMahon, who has no experience in education whatsoever, is best known as one of the founders—along with her husband, fellow wrestling promoter Vince McMahon—of World Wrestling Entertainment, Inc. (WWE).
Her nomination drew backlash from education professionals who've pointed out that McMahon has backed dismantling the very department she’s been tapped to lead. The Trump administration's efforts to defund the department via billionaire Elon Musk's DOGE initiative continue.
As much as we might not want to, most of us have some secrets that we'd rather not tell.
But there are two kinds of people when it comes to long-term secrets: those who intend to take those secrets to the grave, no exceptions, and those who'd rather say, "Well, cat's outta the bag!"
Fortunately for us, AskReddit lets us have a little bit of both worlds.
Popcorn at the ready, Redditor just_a_dude5001 asked:
"What's one thing that you will take to the grave, but can tell internet strangers?"
"My cousin has stolen hundreds of thousands of dollars from the company he works for because they are headquartered in another country and just approve every 'expense' he submits. He's a nice guy, though."
- BigRedCowboy
"That happened at my company, and they realized only after the person was fired (for different reasons)."
"This person was in charge of transferring money into one of the company bank accounts, and every fifth payment or so, they would transfer the funds to their own account."
"My company didn’t press charges because of the hassle it would be to open the books and prove the missing money."
- Sad_Couple_2337
"I caught my mom cheating on my dad when I was a teenager."
"She told me that if I told my dad, he would leave her, and us (me and my siblings), and it would be all my fault if he did."
"So I never said anything."
"As an adult, I realize it wouldn’t have been my fault, and while my dad may have left HER, he wouldn’t have left me."
"My dad died a few years ago, and I still regret not telling him."
"I don’t talk to my mom anymore."
- No_Hyena8479
"You don't have a thing to regret. Your mother quite literally threatened you, a CHILD, into not telling your dad about her adultery."
"She's the piece of s**t. You did nothing wrong. Everybody in these comments would agree, I'm sure."
- mistermaster
"My father died of leukemia, but before I knew his diagnosis, he had a massive bleed on his brain for a second time."
"I had to carry him down the stairs, and I accidently bumped his head off the door frame, and from that moment that happened to the last three days he was alive, he never talked once as he lost the ability to talk and was gasping for air till he passed away."
"Ever since I bumped his head by accident, it feels like I am responsable for making his death faster, and the guilt is eating me inside, but now if I think about it, if I had not bumped his head, would he still be alive and suffered more from his Lukemia for more than three days?"
"I'm still missing him is an understatement, but I feel like I let him down at the end of his life. No one else knows about this, and I am 100% taking this to the grave with me."
- Brustkle1984
"I know the complexity and depth of grief of losing a father."
"But, as a neuroscientist with substantial focus on speech, it's vanishingly unlikely that you would have had any negative influence here. Speech issues after a bleed on the brain are super common, so much of the cortex is involved in planning or producing speech, and substantial damage to those areas can be really deleterious to speech production. It happened to my granddad, my niece, and now two friends of mine."
"For a hit to the head to cause that sort of impairment, it would have to be substantial... like... doing it deliberately would be very effortful."
"But I understand how like... vulnerable it feels to try and care for someone in substantial decline. It almost feels like it's better to take blame or 'what if' the situation after the fact because maybe that's just more comforting than the idea that maybe things like this are just going to happen no matter what."
"You cared, and that's the best thing in the world. Hope you still hold on to that bit."
- Huwbacca
"When I was 12, I catfished a NYT reporter into believing I was a college basketball star. I did an interview over AIM."
"It was published. Nothing ever came of it."
"He contacted me first, based on my username and profile. I assumed he was every bit as fake as I was and just went with it."
- tyedge
"Journalist here… That’s not on you; that’s on him. Verifying the identity of sources is one of the top priorities, if not the very top, in this field."
"I’ve worked for a handful of news outlets over the last 15ish years, and I would’ve been fired from each one if I published a story without verifying who I was talking to."
- TomNookOwnsUsAll
"My wife goes apes**t any time her dying father gives money to people because she thinks they're taking advantage of him. Her dad is upset with this because he has money (and can't take it with him), and he won't admit it, but he feels useless because he can't help and wants to reciprocate however he can."
"I've been accepting money from him behind her back, for his benefit and ours."
- Theslumberqueen
"Just be careful, man. If she’s feeling that way and knows you know it, she might go even harder at you if she finds out you’re 'taking advantage of him' and hiding it."
"I totally get what you mean, though. Sometimes, it’s an insult to refuse gifts, and sometimes, when money is all a person can do to help, accepting it can help them get over feelings of uselessness or being a burden on others."
"Hope it all works out for you and your family."
- Cheese_Pancakes
"This is a man who's never accepted favours his whole life. For a bunch of people to come over and clean out his whole house before the possession date, and he gives nothing back, that's a problem."
"I'm working on my wife, short of telling her. I believe this is a crazy grief reaction given its intensity, and I've been working on getting her to accept that it helps his conscience to pay for things people buy him."
- Theslumberqueen
"I'm finally studying what I wanted, and I f**king hate it."
"...It's veterinary."
- Natataya
"Honestly, same. It is not a career to go into feeling that way because it will drag you under. I found out the hard way post-graduation working at an animal shelter. Your love of animals does not need to manifest in medicine."
- MakuaDog
"Vets are at extremely high risk of suicide because of how much they love animals and the trauma of having to put animals down, horrible owners, treatable injuries people can't afford, etc."
"I considered it for awhile. But I knew that having to euthanize animals regularly would destroy me. I love my dogs, and I'm happy with that."
"You're doing selfless work. I commend you."
- Turbulent_Juice_Man
"Father of multiple kids with my wife of 30 years. My wife believes her oldest daughter said 'mama' first (before saying 'dada')."
"All of the others said 'dada' first."
"The truth is, she said 'dada' first when I was alone from her, but I secretly worked with her to say 'mama.' My wife is so proud of the fact her daughter said 'mama' first. I will never, EVER, tell anyone this in real life. Taking it to my grave."
- SlappyToppyJalloppy
"I never actually finished college… I got close enough to finishing that I walked the stage with friends and family watching. However, I never completed like two remaining courses for the degree."
"My first big job after that ‘required’ that I have a degree, but just took my word for it and never checked. I’ve moved on too far in life that I don’t really want to bring it up. My wife and family and friends all think I have a college degree."
- Dwight_The_Fish
"You could totally finish it on the down-low. Take online classes, and make it so it's true instead of something weighing on you!"
- AkiraTheMouse
"I've become best friends with my sister's husband over the years of them dating and getting married, and I honestly wouldn't know what to do without a friend like him in my life."
"But I think she is terrible for him in many ways, including the way she treats him, and I think she has significantly held him back in life, and he could be much further along in life and career if it wasn't for her being dead weight."
"I've never told anyone this."
- titwhip69
"Yikes! That’s a tough spot to be in. Does he seem happy, though? Maybe he is content and doesn’t have the desire to further his career. If he isn’t happy, then maybe telling him wouldn’t be so bad, but if he is happy, then you have to let it be."
- hashbrownsinketchup
"I would agree with content at most times but not necessarily happy."
- titwhip69
"Something I learned over the years... yeah, this happens a lot. But if she is that terrible to him, you owe it to your sibling to call them out. Gently, don't be a d**k, but be honest."
"Family needs to rely on each other to hold themselves accountable. If the roles were reversed, you'd want your sibling to do the same, no?"
- BeefInGR
"I’ve had multiple kids in my care (as a nanny) hit big milestones while mom and dad are away at work."
"I’ve never told them unless it was a safety hazard (i.e. the baby rolls over and is still swaddled for sleep, the baby pulls up to stand and the crib is not lowered)."
"Taking all those first rolls, first steps, first 'mamas' to the grave."
- Both-Tell-2055
"Our kid was at nursery quite a lot. One time, while picking him up, I was told, 'We think he's nearly ready to start walking.'"
"I knew they'd seen his first steps. I still enjoyed his first steps with me, if you see what I mean."
- Schumarker
"When I was in high school, my neighbor got her three-year-old a puppy for her birthday, but the poor thing was neglected and abused by the whole family."
"One day, after they left her outside for hours, I took matters into my own hands. I stole her and took her to my aunt’s next-door neighbor a couple of towns over, who spoiled her rotten."
- Happilyme16
"Stealing neglected pets to bring them to a good home is always morally justified."
"One thing that really made me respect my dad was what he said to me when I started pushing carts at Publix as a teenager."
"We lived in South Florida, where it is unsafe to leave a pet or child in the car for more than a few minutes 90% of the year. He told me if I ever saw a dog locked in a hot car and couldn’t find the owner, to break the window and he’d bail me out of any trouble I got into."
- Scratch_That
"When my mom thought she was dying, she took off all her rings and gave them to me. I gave them back when she recovered. A month later, when she actually died, I removed the rings from her cold fingers in the ER and kept them."
"They’re the only material things I have from her, as I donated the proceeds from my share of her estate. They’re not terribly valuable, but they’re priceless to me."
"My brother asked if I knew what had happened to them so he could sell them with the rest of her estate. I lied. I don’t think he’d care now, but the lie is out there."
- SemperAliquidNovi
"I've run my own business for almost two decades and have people call me for help and advice on business often. I have no training, education, and absolutely no idea what the h**l I'm doing."
- bucklehead
"If you've successfully run a business for almost 20 years, you definitely know what you're doing. Don't sell yourself short. That's something to be proud of."
- RedShiftRunner
"My grandmother lived with us when I was growing up. When I got my driver's license, I had to share a car with her."
"One time, I was trying to back out of a really tight spot and scraped the car next to me, I did a hit and run and never told anyone about it. When my parents saw the scrape on our car, they asked both of us about it, and I denied knowing anything."
"My grandmother also denied it, of course, but because she was old (88 at the time), my parents assumed she did it and forgot (we later determined she was actually developing alzheimers), which caused a huge fight and caused them to take her keys away and not let her drive anymore."
"I never told anyone and got sole use of the car for myself (with the stipulation that I needed to drive her to church every week or anywhere else she wanted to go)."
"This happened about 25 years ago, and she passed a few years later. Sometimes I think she would have lived longer if she still had her independence."
- Brunurb1
"My bestie became a single mom many years ago. That first Christmas she was divorced, I snuck a bunch of small gifts for her under her tree. I never fessed up all these years, but I wanted her to feel special."
- New-Chemical9505
"Stop making me not hate Christmas!"
- FBIsorry
From knowing about stolen funds and resisting justice to keeping someone's heart out of harm's way by not telling them that that compliment that one time was unwarranted, there was a whole range of big and small secrets here.
No matter the size of the secret, though, sometimes it helps to set the burden down, even in an anonymous comment section.