People Divulge If They'd Still Use Social Media If They Had To Share Their Real Identity

Some come to be entertained.

The Wallflower

"I'd lurk and read, but I wouldn't post."

– Not_a_werecat

"Basically how I've been using reddit for years! I have a hard time even making the simplest comments without thinking somehow this sh*ts gonna backfire on me somehow."

– archeryfreak93

Not Alone

"I love this ! I’m currently on a social media detox and I thought I was stupid for still using Reddit but I need some exposure to social media I can’t just completely cut it out, but this made me feel better thanks stranger."

– KylieJennerHusband

Fully Transparent

"Same for me. When I come here I can be fully transparent, and read others stories without making comparisons and going down the rabbit hole that usually leaves me feeling anxious and not good enough."

– crayshesay

It's a hard no.

Mental Health

"Nope. I removed myself from every platform that had that because I was constantly comparing myself to other real people, wishing I had what they had, and it was not healthy for me. Here, I have no clue who any of you are, and it's been an incredibly healthy shift while still allowing some exposure to social media."

– dj92wa

Permission To Be Rude

"No. Not because anonymity gives me the opportunity to be rude to people (I try to be as polite here as in real life), but because anonymity gives me the opportunity to talk about things freely that I wouldn't talk about if my actual name was attached to it."

"I have no desire for family members or employers to search my name and stumble across me sharing an embarrassing story, or having a not-so-mainstream opinion, or fangirling over my favorite tv character or whatever other niche interests I might have. Not to mention the risk of being stalked by people you try to avoid."

– onesmilematters

Giving Up On The Internet

"Hell no, I'd immediately stop using nearly every website I frequent if the anonymity was gone."

– AGlitchedNPC

Unemployment Risk

"One reason amongst the multitude of reasons, is that I don’t want the sh*t I say on the internet interfering with my job. I don’t want to get fired over a controversial opinion or over the language I use, such as simple words like f'k or sh*t. I’d have to overly censor myself, and the point of being anonymous is that I don’t have to do that."

– falaladoo

Security Reasons

"Probably not. I don't want to broadcast my identity for security reasons. I think that is often forgotten about when people go rabid over online anonymity."

"If a criminal/hostile state actor can make connections of when/where/what you post, it opens up a lot of scary possibilities."

– Substantial_Double32

For some, it's just a space for casual interaction.

Difference With Facebook

"This is one of the things that I really enjoy reddit for vs. Facebook. I can have indepth discussions, arguments, and debates with people who have no clue who I am, nor do I know them. I've really limited what I'll comment on Facebook out of the realization that any one I'm friends with could see that."

– ronaldreaganlive

Some Limits

"I might possibly still use it."

"But I won't express myself honestly anymore."

"Anonymity is one of absolutely essential things to assure honest and open debate. When you can be hounded and publicly punished for having an opinion different than that of the majority, you can not have free and fair debate."

– dittybopper_05H

Staying Private

"The same reason I don't post or comment on FB or Insta etc, I don't want people I know to read my opinions on anything. I'm a private person and It's none of their business."

"I like to be argumentative and have various opinions on topics that many people on my 'friends list' wouldn't necessarily appreciate."

"I'm also dead against the 'look at me' type of posting you see on other platforms; e.g. 'okay this time I'm done' without any explanation."

"In closing: I don't want to live my online life under the lense of people I know IRL."

– Rab1227

I would have no problem continuing to use any social media platform to comment on a topic with my authentic take on the subject at hand.

Because why on earth would anyone willfully make the original poster feel bad while they know exactly who is making negative remarks?

Many say, "If you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say it."

Yet, that doesn't seem to stop people who have nothing better to do but elevate themselves by taking total strangers down.

Life's short, people. Let's be kind. It's not that hard.