Best friends for life! That's the motto. Friends before lovers because lovers come and go. The list of friendship mantras is endless. So you would think that means everyone sees their relationships with the people they call their closest, not blood related, chosen family will be endless. No expirations date. Sadly this is not always the case. Sometimes people do just come and go in your life, actually the older you get you realize most people come and go and ninety percent of the time, the going is the best thing that happens. It's not the happiest fact but it is often the sanest. Life is long, you can have many besties.
Redditor u/HairyFaithlessness was interested in hearing some the best reasons behind... Why don't you talk to your once "best friend" anymore? Pay attention for yourself in these. Red flags are afoot.
I can't see people.....
GiphyI have social anxiety i stopped talking to literally everyone. effyoumod
I did that for a bit. Now I'm in a stage of trying to make up for lost time and salvage the remnants of friendships that still exist while there's still time (I just started my senior year of high school). Honestly I don't think I'll ever get back to how close I used to be and I'm not sure if it's even worth it to try. luigipheonix
One More Try....
We had been friends since infancy but we started to drift in our late teens/early twenties. We both experimented with drugs, but he got into opioids hard. Found out that he stole a few things of mine from my parents' house while I was at college under that guise that "I told him he could borrow some stuff." Broke my heart knowing that my parents let him into their home just so he could steal. We had a couple of shouting matches and didn't speak for a couple of years while he was in and out of rehab/jail.
He got clean for 2 years and we reconciled somewhat
Three years ago he overdosed.
I would give anything to have one more conversation with him, about anything at all. obsterwankenobster
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