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Sometimes, you just know, and that can certainty give you a little peace.
That was the experience actress Demi Moore had tat the 2025 Oscars ceremony when she "knew" that Mikey Madison was going to walk away with the award for Best Actress.
While conducting an interview with Time, Moore explained that when the nominees for Best Actress were displayed, she knew between herself, Cynthia Erivo, Fernanda Torres, Karla Sofía Gascón, and Mikey Madison that Madison was going to win, hands down.
Instead of feeling jealous or hurt, Moore was at peace with it.
"I leaned over and whispered to my manager, 'I think it's going to Mikey.'"
"I don't know why I knew, but I did. I was so centered and calm. I didn't feel gutted."
Seeing the winners of the Oscars ceremony, some fans joked online about the possibility of Demi Moore embracing her character's story arc a little too much.
Moore was the leading actress in The Substance, which follows a middle-aged woman who has lost relevance in her industry. It's only when she uses an illegal and dangerous drug that a younger version of herself is able to make strides in the industry again, before going terribly and brutally off the rails.
Unlike her character, Moore held no hard feelings toward Madison or even the act of losing itself.
"The physical, human part that has ego, of course, has disappointment. It certainly would have been wonderful to have won."
"To go from the beginning of this last year feeling like I was never part of the conversation, to being acknowledged in a critical way for my work, has just allowed me to open up my belief in greater possibilities."
"I just trusted, and am in trust of whatever is going to unfold."
Fans applauded Demi Moore for maintaining such a positive attitude.
didn’t win the Oscar, but won the moment with this energy
— Sven (@svenwontmiss) April 16, 2025
All class, all the time
— Austin Butler's Unofficial Publicist (@ABUnofficial100) April 16, 2025
She better then me cuz i thought she was gonna win because of the way the academy doesn’t award young actresses in their 20s.
— Ocean (@414_777) April 16, 2025
God, I still feel so badly for Demi. Mikey is amazing in Anora, no question, but Demi really met and owned the moment, so it was heartbreaking to see her go home empty-handed on what probably was a now-or-never opportunity.
— The Brutalish (@mbrinkerhoff) April 16, 2025
she was calm I was crashing out.
— Maxine (@maxine_221) April 16, 2025
A true queen!
— Polignac36 (@polignac36) April 16, 2025
A few were more critical and thought the prediction could be made from a mile away.
Easy prediction cause Oscar against awarding acting in horror, sci-fi, action, or any genre other than drama, and Mikey is young upcoming talented actress, of course she's gonna win.
— 🎃🍉🍩 (@ghypxe) April 16, 2025
The truth is: no one in the academy cared about the Substance, it didn't win anything but make-up. Anora won basically everything and you couldn't let the actress who carried the whole movie leave empty handed
— Yanca ᶠᶠᶜ (@Yancamirella1) April 16, 2025
Mikey has been sweeping the critics group eversince, and Demi wasn’t even close. Demi swept the televised award shows coz they make good tv and headlines. They played her and she believed her own hype.
— DEAN (@deandraker) April 16, 2025
That was her season. We all know it
— The Easter Beagle (@shanefrom54) April 17, 2025
Yeah, Mikey gained steam when she won the BAFTA. She won the majority of the critics awards as well. So her winning the Oscar was well deserved. It’s at least the second or third best performance of 2024.
— House of Fire and Blood (@HouseofFireand2) April 16, 2025
Plenty of people predicted Mikey would win it. You aren't that special in this case
— Will Joy (@willjoy13) April 17, 2025
It's natural to feel excited about being nominated for an award—and to hold out hope for a win. It's also natural to feel disappointed when that doesn't happen.
But we can take a page from Demi Moore's playbook and remember to practice gratitude and grace.
President Donald Trump sparked backlash after he used the death of former President Jimmy Carter to criticize former President Joe Biden, saying Carter “died a happy man” knowing that that Biden's leadership was “worse” than his.
Carter, the longest-lived president in U.S. history, died in December at 100 years old. His funeral was one of pomp and circumstance, and projected an aura of unity amid the political turbulence that characterized the 2024 election cycle.
The Carter family is no fan of Trump.
According to Jason Carter, one of Carter's grandsons and the board chairman of the Carter Center, Trump embodies "a meanness and a darkness" that sharply contrasts with Carter’s values. Unsurprisingly, Trump was the only president not asked to contribute a video tribute for an Atlanta concert honoring Carter.
The notoriously thin-skinned Trump likely had this on his mind when he told reporters the following in the Oval Office:
“And then you had like the last administration, the only thing they were good at was cheating in elections. That‘s about all they could do. They couldn‘t do anything. They were useless. They were incompetent.”
“Worst administration in the history of our country. Worse than Jimmy Carter. Jimmy Carter died a happy man. You know why? Because he wasn‘t the worst. President Joe Biden was.”
You can hear what he said in the video below.
Before Carter’s death, Trump regularly mocked the 39th president, labeling his administration among the “worst” in U.S. history. On the 2024 campaign trail, he often compared Carter to Biden, calling the current president “the worst” and saying he made Carter look “brilliant” by comparison.
After Carter passed, however, Trump struck a more respectful tone and described Carter as a “good man” and “very consequential, far more than most presidents, after he left the Oval Office.” He later joined other living presidents in attending Carter’s funeral.
Even so, Trump has spent part of his early second term vowing to dismantle some of Carter’s legacy—threatening to walk back the 1977 treaty returning control of the Panama Canal to Panama and proposing to eliminate the Department of Education, established in 1979.
His dig at Biden also underscores how much Trump refuses let go of his election conspiracy theories—continuing to claim he won an election Biden won decisively.
Many have condemned his remarks.
So much for not speaking ill of the dead.
Doctor Who showrunner Russell T Davies didn't hold back when asked about so-called fans who claim he’s turned the long-running sci-fi series “woke.”
Speaking on BBC Radio 2, Davies addressed criticism from what he called “online warriors” who have taken issue with recent casting choices—namely, Sex Education star Ncuti Gatwa stepping into the TARDIS as the Fifteenth Doctor in 2023.
Alongside Gatwa, actor Varada Sethu now plays the Doctor’s new companion, Belinda Chandra. It’s the first time both leading roles in Doctor Who have been portrayed by actors of color—a shift that’s sparked backlash from some corners of the internet.
Gatwa, in a recent interview with Radio Times, said the casting represents meaningful “progress, in terms of how we reflect the societies that we live in.”
Davies appears to agree, making it clear that the future of the franchise isn’t just about time travel—it’s about moving forward, too.
He posted the audio on his Instagram so that folks could listen to his whole perspective.
“And there are online warriors accusing us of diversity and wokeness and involving messages and issues. And I have no time for this. I don’t have a second to bear [it]. Because what you might call diversity, I just call an open door.”
Davies then warmed to his subject, letting the genius of his way with words paint a picture of diversity in art being akin to opening a door and seeing the whole world, whereas limiting one's view is more like cracking open a window to only smell exhaust fumes.
"Come over here, where the life and light and sound is."
It's worth a full listen.
Many people loved his metaphor and way with words.
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Especially the ending.
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Folks were really into the analogy, especially by this writer.
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Others took the segment as an opportunity to express how much they adore Doctor Who right now, and always.
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Some commenters chimed in with how much the show meant to them personally.
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They extended pity towards those who, as Davies put it, only see life through a cracked window.
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Because truly, it's those stuck inside that are missing out on the world.
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People argued that those who complain about Doctor Who being "woke" don't understand the term.
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Because Doctor Who is for everyone.
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Doctor Who is available on Max and Disney+.
Republican President Donald Trump's Secretary of Defense, Pete Hegseth, is having his secrets exposed by his former Fox News coworkers. After stories of his excessive drinking were shared by Fox personnel, now his food safety practices are being shared.
On Wednesday, during Fox News' Outnumbered, the hosts discussed the so-called "five-second rule" for food. The "rule" relates to eating food after it's been dropped on the floor.
The segment was prompted by recent scientific findings about how long it takes for bacteria to begin contaminating food—which is under one second—after it's dropped on the floor. Panelists then talked about cleanliness, germs, and parenting philosophies.
At one point, Fox host Joe Concha dropped a peeled banana—presumably on the studio floor—then he counted to five, picked it up, and took a big bite. His cohosts expressed disgust, but then Earhardt decided to share an anecdote about Hegseth.
Earhardt revealed:
"Pete Hegseth would have a bagel with cream cheese. He would drop it, it would land upside down, the cream cheese on the floor, and he would pick it up."
"I’m like, 'Wait, is there any hair on there? It is so gross, and he would just pop it in his mouth'."
You can see the clip here:
The Fox hosts also remembered when Hegseth said during a 2019 Fox & Friends segment that he never washes his hands.
Hegseth said:
"Really, I don’t really wash my hands, ever. I inoculate myself."
"It’s just not—germs are not a real thing. I can’t see them, therefore they’re not real."
After being pretty universally called out for his poor hygiene, Hegseth later claimed it was just a joke.
People found Hegseth's food safety practices as gross as his lack of personal hygiene.
There’s something seriously off about the Fox folks.
— Andria Gaskin (@andriagaskin.bsky.social) April 17, 2025 at 7:49 AM
Newly defined “Everything Bagel” just dropped.
— dandyrooney.bsky.social (@dandyrooney.bsky.social) April 17, 2025 at 10:29 AM
Well, I wouldn't touch Hegseth with a 100ft-pole so I guess we're even.
— Der apokalyptische Dorfbote (@d-a-d.bsky.social) April 17, 2025 at 9:15 AM
Disgusting food fits perfectly with disgusting Hegseth 🤮
— Jildert 🇳🇱 (@jildertvisser.bsky.social) April 17, 2025 at 7:27 AM
While some found other habits Hegseth has more troubling.
Hahaha yea and he assaulted women all the time lol what a goof! And it’s soooo Pete to compromise national security 😆
— itchybitchy.bsky.social (@itchybitchy.bsky.social) April 17, 2025 at 7:17 AM
The biggest threat for people eating off the floor is foodborne illnesses like norovirus, Salmonella, Staphylococcus aureus, and more.
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According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, each year in the United States approximately 76 million people become ill from contaminated food, 325,000 require hospitalization, and 5,000 die.
Maybe Hegseth should consider abstaining from floor food.
Controversial rapper Azealia Banks has buyer's remorse, making it clear she regrets her vote for President Donald Trump in a series of tweets, describing him as an "absolute disaster" who exhibits "crazy old white man anger."
Banks, who had previously attended a Trump rally and initially declared support for then-Vice President Kamala Harris—citing Elon Musk’s involvement in the Trump campaign as a dealbreaker—ultimately reversed course.
Despite writing that Musk “belongs nowhere near American politics. The End,” she later cast her vote for Trump and posted a photo of her completed ballot online.
But now, amid global trade wars, attacks against transgender people, the deportations of thousands of undocumented immigrants, Signalgate, the ongoing scandal involving a man trapped in a deadly El Salvador prison due to an "administrative error," defiance of the Supreme Court—among a host of other issues—it seems Banks isn't too happy with herself, or other Trump supporters.
She wrote:
"Ok I think it's time everyone who voted for Trump admit that we made a f**king mess. Like this is an absolute disaster."
"He's so petty and vindictive rn. Tbh, rightfully so, but not when the wellbeing and livelihood of billions of people - damn near the entire world lay in your hands. Someone needs to get him a cute little lorazepam rx and a high grade ashwaganda supplement because it can't happen like this."
"Nobody on Earth is afraid of crazy old white man anger. Old white men need to reinvent the archetype because it’s too predictable. Like China is just DUNKING on everyone right now.”
You can see her posts below.
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While people didn't necessarily disagree, many felt these statements were a little too late for the MAGA rapper and known contrarian.
While it's still unclear what spurred Banks to write the tweets, she can pretty much take her pick of any of the scandals of the last few weeks.