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People Share The Hardest Things To Understand About American Culture

Though it's often used as the butt of jokes, there's still a lot to appreciate in the United States, whether you live there or are visiting.

But there are also a lot of things that leave onlookers infinitely perplexed about what it's actually like to live in the United States and why they do things like that.


Redditor DadIsMadAtMe asked:

"What’s the hardest thing for you to comprehend about the American culture?"

School Pride!

"School mascots. Where I live, we just have teams and just play matches against people."

"In America, it’s all like, 'GO, EASTTOWN EAGLES!!! OOGACHACKA!' and there would be some person in a cheapo eagle suit spinning a basketball on his fingers or something. You would have a full dramatic cheerleader dance-off before your match, we just shake hands and stare hard at each other."

- benderbrodriguez2

No Child Left Behind

"Canadian here on spring break in Florida."

"I can't get over the baseline... I don't know how to say it, the baseline education level? There are smart people, but there are also completely uneducated people. Like, the divide is massive."

- Spiffydude98

Little-To-No Paid Time Off

"Having two weeks vacation or no PTO (Personal Time Off) for most."

"In my current country, you have to take two weeks of mandatory leave in a row. Including public holidays, I get about seven weeks of vacation per year."

- poor_decision

Financial Debt Culture

"How casual debt is, how easy it is to take loans and credit cards out in other people's names without their knowledge, and how casual it is to rack up huge amounts of debt."

- StrangeDarkling

...Enough Said.

"College fraternities."

- Gorazde

Where's the Poutine?

"Americans love french fries, cheese, and gravy, but poutine never took off south of the border. Always found that odd."

- righhanddan

Zero-Tolerance Policies

"The zero-tolerance rule... Who came up with that s**t? The victim is the one who is f**ked. Either he gets bullied or he gets a penalty for defending himself."

- vomahaf244

Political Followers

"A lot of people follow and worship politicians like they’re gods with flags and all that s**t. In the UK, it’s universally acknowledged that we hate all politicians pretty much equally."

- Monkeytennis01

Tipping Culture

"Having to tip almost everywhere. It definitely makes sense at some places, but feel like we have to tip at the most random of places these days."

- Educational_Word_647

​Cultural Appropriation

"I speak as a Latin American, just setting that down on the table."

"I don’t get why people think that using something from my culture or showing interest in Latin culture is 'cultural appropriation.' I’ve even spoken to a lot of people in my culture about this thing and we all think it’s alright."

- OG_sweaterguy

Healthcare

"Your healthcare system, it's so complicated and expensive. And people going bankrupt because they get sick, what bulls**ttery is this?"

- MrTempleDene

The Stereotypical American Eagle

"American here, fun fact! That stereotypical screech you commonly hear associated with the bald eagle is actually a red-tailed hawk. Bald eagles do not make that sound. They make more of a weird (way less cool) chirping sound."

"I was too old when I learned this for the first time."

- ay-aye-ron

Plus Tax... What?

"Why don't they include tax in the total price of something? Just include it and make life easier. I don't want to have to do maths every time I go there and buy something."

- Old_Understanding325

Not In That Exact Order

"You are allowed to drive a car at 16, own guns, and sign up for the military at 18. But alcohol, behold the devil's liquid!, is only for 21+. The math ain't mathin'."

- lover_of_wisdom_

Money Money Money Money

"Lobbying."

"Legal bribery, what the h**l."

"Also, why do you have to do your taxes? If the Government, in the end, knows if what you paid was what you actually owed, why not just tell you."

- Lolleos

People looking in on the United States definitely had some questions about the people who live there and the systems they have to observe. But the big secret is that many Americans are asking the same exact questions.

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