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These cookies are simply too beautiful to eat.
These astounding cake creations are mesmerizing to watch come to life.
Nothing seems to get conservatives' goats quite like celebrities having political opinions—well, liberal and leftist celebrities, anyway.
They seem to love it when weird right-wing celebs like Kevin Sorbo get on the internet and say bizarre, usually counterfactual nonsense, or when JK Rowling does her darnedest to make her legacy not about Harry Potter but about her weird obsession with trans people.
But a liberal celeb having a political opinion?! Gasp! That won't do! And Hollywood icon Sarah Jessica Parker is over it.
During a recent visit to Nicolle Wallace's podcast The Best People, Parker had some choice words for conservatives who love to tell people like her to "shut up and act."
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Parker told Wallace that she finds that attitude hypocritical.
“They seem to want everyone who disagrees to shut up. It’s the weirdest thing — but not their side."
"It’s so off-kilter, like who can talk and who can’t? Who’s told to shut up and who isn’t? I’m just a citizen ... [but] someone will say to me, ‘Shut up and act.’”
Parker also hit back at people on the left who think she doesn't talk about politics enough. She explained to Wallace that she doesn't find social media to be a particularly productive place to discuss political issues.
She explained:
“They’ll say, ‘Be vocal. Be vocal.’ And I am vocal."
"I’m not interested in quick little snippets when it’s dealing with conflict or even election sometimes."
"I really was so thoughtful about how I wanted to talk about the election because I think it turns into a distraction from a campaign. It turns into fodder. It’s misunderstood.”
She went on to express how dismayed she feels that our political discourse has devolved to anger, insults and online fighting in the social media era.
"There was a kind of civility, there was a kind of elegance to our differences [before social media]."
"Shut up and act" is a perfect of example of what Parker explained as a loss of respect for both each other and for the offices of government that have been inflamed by social media.
Takes like that are often controversial, especially among young people. But the data, which has been extensively studied, is clear that social media has greatly exacerbated our political divisions and been leveraged by political parties and foreign adversaries specifically for that purpose.
The response to Parker's comments on social media basically just proved her point, with many conservatives insulting her.
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But the majority seemed to agree with Parker, and applauded her take.
Parker ended her comments by urging people to be more involved in politics beyond social media, whether they're a celebrity or not, telling Wallace, "I think we can be a lot more productive sometimes when we’re not doing that."
Far-right provocateur Ann Coulter is facing fierce criticism after she made a genocidal remark in a now-deleted post on X in response to University of Minnesota professor and Navajo Nation member Melanie Yazzie's speech about colonization.
Yazzie, in a speech at last year's annual Socialism Conference, said "decolonization is the only thing that is going to save us as a species" during a panel hosted by Red Nation, a Native American nonprofit that advocates for Palestinian and Native American rights. She also said that the United States is the "greatest predator empire that has ever existed" and said it should be dismantled.
Although Yazzie made the remarks well over a year ago, far-right accounts resurfaced them and The Times of Israel falsely claimed that she'd issued them this week.
Responding to one far-right fellow X user who shared footage of Yazzie speaking, Coulter responded:
"We didn't kill enough Indians."
You can see her post below.
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Many have condemned Coulter's remark.
Writing on Facebook, Chuck Hoskin Jr., principal chief of the Cherokee Nation, called Coulter's post “beyond abhorrent” and “dangerous hate speech":
“Coulter’s statement, on its face, is a despicable rhetorical shot trained on the First Peoples of this continent, designed to dehumanize and diminish us and our ancestors and puts us at risk of further injury."
“We’ve faced enough of that since this country’s founding. This kind of rhetoric has fueled the destruction of tribes, their life ways, languages and cultures, the violation of treaty rights, and the perpetuation of violence and oppression.”
“What Ann Coulter said is heartless, vicious and should be repudiated by people of good faith regardless of political philosophy or party. Some things are simply wrong and we cannot validate it through our silence.”
You can see his post below.
Meanwhile, Vice President of the Wichita and Affiliated Tribes Tasha Mousseau described Coulter as "what colonizers would like to continue on in this country.”
Noting that she has a newborn grandson, Mousseau said his birth "is evidence that we will always be here, despite the best efforts of the U.S. government and colonizer."
Superman director James Gunn issued a response to the "jerks" who criticize the political themes inherent to the superhero's story, expressing his hope that seeing the movie will "make people a little nicer."
Speaking with The Times of London, Gunn stressed that the story of Superman is more relevant than ever considering the ongoing political turmoil in the United States largely centered around the Trump administration's immigration crackdown.
He said:
“I mean, Superman is the story of America. An immigrant that came from other places and populated the country, but for me it is mostly a story that says basic human kindness is a value and is something we have lost.”
“Yes, it plays differently. But it’s about human kindness and obviously there will be jerks out there who are just not kind and will take it as offensive just because it is about kindness. But screw them.”
Gunn pointed out that its core, the story is also one about "morality":
“Do you never kill no matter what — which is what Superman believes — or do you have some balance, as Lois believes? It’s really about their relationship and the way different opinions on basic moral beliefs can tear two people apart.”
“This Superman does seem to come at a particular time when people are feeling a loss of hope in other people’s goodness. I’m telling a story about a guy who is uniquely good, and that feels needed now because there is a meanness that has emerged due to cultural figures being mean online.”
“And, no, I don’t make films to change the world, but if a few people could be just a bit nicer after this it would make me happy.”
Many concurred with Gunn's remarks.
As did Gunn's longtime collaborator, actor Nathan Fillion, who said of the film's critics:
"Somebody needs a hug. It's just a movie, guys."
Gunn's take on Superman is the first standalone film featuring the superhero since 2013's Man of Steel. It will be released on Friday, July 11.
Content Warning: Controlling and Toxic Relationship Behaviors
We've all either been involved in or witnessed a relationship where we saw something that we thought was cute or sweet at first, but we eventually found the behavior to be troubling or "too much."
It's actually alarming how quickly a sweet behavior can turn toxic, as a person uses what they're doing as a way to control or hurt their partner.
Cringing in anticipation, Redditor Obvious-Barber6622 asked:
"What's something people do in relationships that they think is sweet but is actually toxic?"
"'They love me so much that they want me to spend every minute with them and no one else.'"
- gouwbadgers
"And then when you want to do something by yourself or not with them, they call you out for not loving them enough."
- sinofchaos162
"My ex was this way. Everything had to be OURS. I didn't have anything of my own."
"Shortly after I met my now-husband, I remember begging him to go to a concert with me, but it wasn't music he listened to, and I was saying how much I HAD to see this band, and can we please go."
"And he just casually said, 'Go. Take Becca. She likes that s**t.' And it hit me like a truck that it was totally normal for couples to do things separately."
"Now, 15 years later, we DO do a lot together, because we genuinely love each other's company, but we also both have stuff the other one isn't usually involved in. I do community theatre. I'm in a band. I go to songwriter nights and song circles. He goes and tinkers with a tractor or goes hunting with his dad."
"And I can't IMAGINE going back to having to share everything. I feel like I can't breathe when I think about it."
- LizardPossum
"Asking me to always text back as fast as possible so I do not forget about them."
- Vivid_Morning_8282
"This was something my abusive ex would do. It would extend to keeping me awake. I’d send a goodnight text, he’d say he wanted to keep texting with me, and then blow up when I inevitably fell asleep while texting."
"My mind was thoroughly blown when, years later, a therapist suggested that my chronic insomnia was likely connected to this trauma, and that sleep deprivation is a tactic cult leaders use!"
"So yeah, not cute."
- Sterling2K
"Putting you down but playing it off as a joke. If it hurts your feelings, it’s not a joke."
- kyungsookim
"My husband and I play fight all the time. If either of us thinks the other took it just a little too far or ventured into mean territory without meaning to, we're quick to tell the offending party, and apologies are made."
"There's jokes and then there's being hurtful."
- Kristal3615
"When they call constantly and then get mad if you don't answer."
"I worked with a guy who left his phone on my work desk by mistake while he went out to get a coffee and pick up some work stuff, and I counted 15 times his partner called."
"I asked him how he seriously put up with that... The worst thing is that it wasn't even urgent; it was something meaningless like, 'Can you pick up some milk?'"
- Excellent-Ad-2443
"Posting their 'happiness' all over social media."
"90% of the time, at least one person in those types of partnerships isn't happy and just feels the need to keep up appearances because they've told everyone and their dog how perfect their relationship is for years, and when it stops being perfect, they just keep on singing the praises of a person they can barely stand."
- collagenFTW
"Not respecting personal space. Or just boundaries in general."
- traumatized_syntax
"My girlfriend will come stand at the bathroom door and talk to me while I'm s**tting despite me asking numerous times for a few minutes to myself."
"She says, 'I just can't stay away from you,' and I'm like, 'Okay, not for 10 minutes?!!'"
- Doesntmatter1237
"OMG, I hate that so much. A shocking number of people believe that climbing up your SO's @ss constantly means that you're really, extra-special, super-duperly in love."
"I've dated a fair few men like that, and when, 'No, seriously, don't do that,' was ineffective, I started flailing. Step back or take the chance of getting smacked."
"My husband has largely learned to not do that, thankfully."
- MissySedai
"Obsessively tracking Life360, constantly calling and asking, 'Why are you at ...'"
"Announcing to the group, 'Wonder why they stopped at...'"
"Incessantly texting when they're not together. Calling others because they can't reach their partner because 'it's an emergency, they're not answering,' after texting 15 minutes prior, and there is no emergency."
"They're anxiously attached."
- HealnMee
"A guy I used to date would try to prevent me from engaging in hobbies I enjoy because he was 'concerned for my safety.' I found it really controlling."
"In general, I feel like people often disguise a desire for control as concern for another’s safety."
- Opening_Acadia1843
"Same, my last ex was like this. If it didn't involve him, then I couldn't read. I couldn't write; if I did journal, he would read it while I was asleep and be mean about what I wrote."
"I was taking some college classes at the time and couldn't finish the classes because he didn't like that I was in class with other people. I hated that."
"A few weeks later, his family reached out, and it was like I was old news, because his family was talking to him. He went to stay over there, told my family different things about him staying those few days (like it was my fault and he needed space)."
"So, I packed up all of his stuff. He was homeless when we met and was living in my room in my mom's house. It took me THREE DAYS to pack up all of his stuff nicely, because he had accumulated so much stuff."
"I drove it to his aunt's house and dropped it all on the side of the road. Then I changed my locks and my number. That relationship was so toxic, I'm glad I did what I did."
- emoposterchild
"Being jealous of literally everyone who speaks to your partner."
- Carless_H**lscape
"Seriously! Friends, the grocery store cashier or bagger, a COUSIN. Ask me how I know."
"Actually, no, don't. I'll just say, if your partner gets too hung up on who you're talking to, and you've never given them a reason to feel that way, like flirting or cheating on them, start looking for a way out, because they will probably put up a fight and not want you to leave."
- TheBookishAndTheBard
"They start watching what you can and can’t eat, or micromanaging anything. It can seem like a concern at first, but it can extend to controlling behavior overall."
- Wise_N_Wild
"Anytime I ordered anything that had bread/came with bread, they'd say, 'that has a lot of carbs,' and then there was all the sulking, not telling me what’s wrong, and then later admitting to being mad because they didn’t like what I ordered when we went out to eat."
- Extreme-Shower-2639
"I had an ex that would use my stuff all the time, and when he could tell it bothered me, he’d make a face he thought was cute and say, 'What’s yours is mine and mine is yours.'"
"I started hiding things from him. I didn’t want to share my toothbrush, or deodorant, or my expensive face lotion because a lot of others f**k up my skin. He thought it was so cute to share that stuff, but in my next relationship,p I got really possessive about my things and would tend to get mad if they asked to borrow things."
"I’m over it now, and my boyfriend now would never do that, but man, I hated it."
- FuerGrissaOstDrauka
"Public surprise proposals."
- northernlyghts
"I'll always defend a woman who says no to one of these."
- birthdaycheesecake9
"Enmeshment pattern, like a parent who believes she 'lives through' the child."
"People think it's sweet because 'Awww, the mom or dad really cares.'"
"But what they don't see is the toxic side of how it can strip away the child's individuality."
"The same goes for romantic relationships: identifying yourself too much through your partner, their successes and achievements, measuring your worth on being in a relationship, etc."
- kelcamer
"My ex would do very public things to surprise me. Like send me gifts at work so everyone could see how cool he was. I hated it."
- LifeHappenzEvryMomnt
"Cause it’s about himself, not about you. He wants to look good, and he didn’t care how you felt about the public display."
"I had an ex send me flowers at work once, but I was working at a florist. He paid a rival flower shop to deliver me flowers while I was doing Valentine's arrangements for other people. It was genuinely embarrassing."
- continuetolove
"The silent treatment to avoid an actual argument or discussion about something that caused upset. I ended up walking on eggshells constantly as the sheer anxiety triggered from silent treatment was worse."
- Equivalent-Bell-6925
"Walking away to collect one’s thoughts is fine, but if it’s mutually agreed upon and there’s a timeframe given."
"'This is a hard moment, and I need an hour to collect my thoughts. Can we revisit this then?'"
"I would take that any day over just leaving someone on read or disappearing without a word for the day."
- oddmi13
It's clear why these were such red flags to these relationships, even if they seemed sweet or considerate at first. It's important to understand how slippery of a slope some of these behaviors can be since they can so easily be used as a control tactic.
When money is tight, we look for every possible way to avoid spending it.
As much as we might find ourselves missing out on some of the nicer things life has to offer, we find ourselves contented by the fact that we will always have enough money in our bank accounts to pay our bills on time.
Indeed, we might be so contented that even if we eventually find ourselves in a place where money is no object, we might have a hard time shaking these habits.
Even though we can afford to let them go entirely.
Redditor FitCicada5037 was curious to learn about money-saving habits that people had trouble stopping even after becoming wealthy, leading them to ask:
"What is a 'poor people' habit you'll never stop doing, no matter how rich you get?"
"Squeezing every last drop of toothpaste out of the tube"- According_Travel7905
"First step before any non-staple purchase is an argument from myself as to why it isn't necessary."- DarthDregan
"Checking Clearance at clothing stores first."
"Sometimes I find great things for really cheap."
"Also, wait for the highest possible percentage off on a going-out-of-business sale."- Justwantanswers_17
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"Leftover nuts and bolts (and other hardware/fasteners/tools) from new furniture kits, old broken appliances, etc."
"It goes to the garage so I can use it in 15 years."- goaelephant
"Using grocery bags as trash bags."- GiveUp-WatchItBurn
"I’m never going to waste food if I can help it."
"The fact that people casually throw away half of a meal is crazy to me, especially when it’s at a restaurant where they paid a $100+ bill."- KingAustin94
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"Using every single last drop of any products/eating all my food."
"Lotion?"
"I am cutting open the tube."
"Shrimp shells?"
"Soup time."- BostonAccentFan
"I know people who don't eat leftovers."
"This is just so wasteful."
"Food is food is food."
"Throwing food away because it's a day old is way too foreign a concept for me."
"I also can eat the same thing 3 days in a row and not be bothered about it."
"If that's what there is, that's what I'm eating."
"I can afford variety now, but wasting food?"
"I just can't do it."- aremarkablecluster
"Checking the calendar for the two months with three paychecks!"
"This only works if you’re paid every other week."- Pinkpantherpaw
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"Turning lights off when I leave the room."- DetailEcstatic7235
"Reusing containers, especially glass jars, for any kind of storage needs."
"Buttons, pens, coins, plant cuttings?"
"They’re all going in repurposed jars!"- butterbuns_megatron
"I pick up any coins found on the ground."
"Penny jar going strong."- beach_catlover
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"Looking for the best deal-not the cheapest, but best quality for price…and coupons."- waltzing123
"Compare prices per unit of measure."
"For example $0.36 per gram."- zqpmx
"I grew up with no money and now even though I have enough, I still really love eating my povvo meals - instant ramen with an egg, vegemite toast with cheese."
"Though that might just be childhood nostalgia."- Material_Bluebird_97
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Staying on a tight budget comes with more than its fair share of frustrations.
That being said, there is little more dangerous than having a seemingly endless amount of money to spend.
As that money could easily disappear in an instant, leaving you to wish you had kept more of it aside.
Making that bowl of instant Ramen in lieu of a chateaubriand seems not so bad after all.