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People Describe The 'Black Sheep' Of Their Family

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Every family has a black sheep or every family in its entirety are black sheep.

What is a "black sheep" anyway?

It used to mean a person who brought shame or embarrassment to a family, but it's more often used now to mean the member who is just very different from everyone else—sometimes in a good way.


Redditor Frozen_yoghurt123 asked:

"Who is the 'black sheep' of your family?"

I'm the black sheep or at least I'd like to think so.

Join me...

Scandal

"Probably my dad's cousin, who went to prison for murdering his lover's husband."

DW_555

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"biggest disappointment"

"My Dad. He is the only one of 6 siblings who wasn't a huge f**k up. And yet, before my Grandma died she stated that he was her 'biggest disappointment.' He is estranged from his surviving siblings... not by his choice. It honestly blows my mind."

Unfair_Biscotti2828

"Toxicity is often a group mindset thing; people don't want you to leave because they are dysfunctionally co-dependent on each other and need each other to justify their own shortcomings in life. A lot of the 'family loyalty' stuff is typically shouted loudest by those who are the least good idea to stay loyal towards."

Creative_Recover

The Dead

"My great uncle who stole my great grandfathers identity, stole a couple million dollars, and ran off. No one even knew he was alive until my great grandfathers funeral in 2009. No one has seen him since. My grandma started to cry because she honestly thought he was dead."

"Everyone else just kind of nodded on his direction and went on with the rest of the funeral. I just remember being very confused because I was 9 and I had never met this guy who my dad pulled me aside and told me he was my great uncle. It was a few years later that I got the full story."

valkyrieonaunicorn

"matriarch"

"According to my mean aunt, the 'matriarch' in her own mind, it's my twin brother because "he doesn't care about family now that he's a doctor." (He's a resident. Chief resident. He works ridiculous hours and spends the rest of the time recovering from work.)"

"According to my ex-MIL (who still counts because she's Son's grandma), it's me, for divorcing her son."

"According to everyone else, it's Mean Aunt. The rest of us are warm and caring and compassionate. We have our moments; all of us have been accidentally thoughtless or done something selfish once in a while, but we're not deliberately mean and snarky all the time."

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Everybody

"My immediate family are the black sheep of the entire family."

DarthDregan

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Sounds like everyone has a little black sheep in them.

People Issues

"By now, my brother for cutting off everyone because he prefers his rude, selfish, paranoid, narcissist wife over all of us."

"My wife is the black sheep of her family in the sense that she's the only one who isn't a rude, selfish, paranoid narcissist."

Lvcivs2311

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So Dumb

"Me. My granddaddy told me 'I’ve only had the sheriff knock on my door two times in my 80 years, and both times he was looking for you! 'I did some dumb sh*t, caused a little trouble, burned a few bridges but always managed to stay out of jail. Partly because my sister has kept an attorney on retainer for me since I was 16."

This_Personality3731

Liar Liar

"My younger brother (2nd of 4) is a compulsive liar and it got him in a lot of little trouble as a teen, then he told his wife he graduated a big college when we're not even sure if he got his GED because he failed to graduate HS, went to some GED school and eventually just stopped going."

"IF he graduated college, he never mentioned he was going in the 4+ years it takes nor mention graduation or have a diploma. He's not a bad dude, but now family time is super awkward when he and his wife are talking about 'their' college team."

UniqueUsername82D

The NOT good girl...

"My aunt's daughter. She’s been in jail for drugs, stolen money from my aunt and other family members to use on drugs and physically abused my aunt. My aunt has tried getting her help, but nothing has worked. She’s just not a good person, and everyone in my family, except my aunt, doesn’t want anything to do with her. I haven’t seen her in 8 years now, and I’m happy about that."

Hello_Im_the_world

Maria?

"A former nun - my great aunt - left the religious life and got married. She called herself 'the black sheep of the family' because her habit was black."

Back2Bach

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Well the black sheep sound like the most interesting family members.

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