Kelly Rizzo, widow of the late comedian Bob Saget, stood up to critics who shamed her for dating again.
In a TikTok video, she defended her decision, emphasizing that only those who have experienced widowhood truly understand the complexities involved.
“You just don’t understand the incredibly complex, and difficult, and dynamic thoughts and feelings that come up during this entire process."
Rizzo disclosed that she waited 18 months after Saget's passing before considering dating again, highlighting the importance of honoring loved ones while moving forward.
Despite criticism, she affirmed that finding love after loss is a personal journey.
“And the point is: Is that whatever feels right to you because you know how important your loved one was in your life, and as long as you’re honoring that and honoring them, and being true to your feelings and you know that you’re also having the love and support from your spouse’s loved ones and friends. Then you can’t be doing it wrong.”
Rizzo, who married Saget in 2018, revealed that Saget's daughters approved of her dating, acknowledging their support in her decision.
Reflecting on her journey, she expressed gratitude for finding someone who appreciates her experiences.
People expressed in the comments that she has handled this well, and were also angry on her behalf that anyone had commented poorly on her choices.
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Many other widows chimed in with their own stories.
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Others shared their perspective as children of widows.
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Some talked about what it looks like when people don't move on after their spouse passes.
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There was also a small but meaningful contingent of commenters that talked honestly about how they struggled with being a person who judged others in this matter.
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As Rizzo discussed how her new boyfriend acknowledges her former husband, people were appreciative of his efforts.
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Okay, this might be "too soon."
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Finally, some people thanked Rizzo for her honesty, clarity, and for making the video.
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Rizzo hosts the podcast Comfort Food.
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