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Audra McDonald Speaks Out After Autograph-Seeking Fan Followed Her Home—And People Are Horrified
Aug 19, 2025
Broadway legend and recent star of Gypsy Audra McDonald unfortunately finished the show's run on a sour note, as she informed fans on her Instagram.
The Tony-winning actor and singer, 55, started by explaining that the "stage door" practice, where Broadway actors exit through a side door of the theater to greet fans and sign autographs, is common but not expected or required. Some actors love to do it, others would rather not, and she stressed that there are countless reasons an actor might choose not to on any given night.
The Gilded Age star said:
"There's a lot of reasons that performers don't do the stage door. There've been shows that I've done it and shows that I've not done it."
"But some of the reasons are: They're exhausted; some people get anxiety about doing stage door; some people are in a rush to catch trains so they can get home; some people avoid the stage door because of health reasons."
Fair.
She then called out a fan who recently followed her out of the theater and all the way to the building where she was staying, and said she eventually had to call security to help her with the fan.
Upon questioning, the fan said they thought they deserved an autograph because "[they'd] come all this way—and they named some town, some city that they'd come all the way from."
Yikes.
McDonald wrapped up her message with advice on how best to interact with actors after the show:
"When you see an actor leave the stage door, if they don't stop, leave them alone."
"There is a reason that they're not stopping, and it has nothing to do with you."
"It's them protecting their space and peace, whatever that may be, and if they do stop or wave or take a picture with you or sign an autograph, great, but please respect the proper boundaries."
- YouTubeyoutu.be
Commenters were quick to say how crazy that behavior was.
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Fans in the comments were quick to call out the fan's behavior for what it really was.
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A show is not the actor's actual life, a fact that seems to escape many fans, unfortunately.
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Finally, commenters found this fan's behavior to be indicative of a larger problem.
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The run of Gypsy that McDonald starred in just closed on August 17.
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MAGA TikToker Gets Brutally Dragged After Tired 'Slippery Slope' Rant About Gay Marriage
Aug 19, 2025
The moment many LGBTQ+ people have warned about seems to be dawning as Kim Davis, the infamous Kentucky clerk who went to jail over refusing to process same-sex marriages, has resurfaced.
Now out of jail, Davis is asking the Supreme Court to overturn Obergefell v Hodges, the case that granted the right to same-sex marriage in 2015 and the violation of which landed Davis in jail.
It's unknown whether the Court will take up her petition (many experts say it's unlikely), but many conservatives have seized on the news as an opportunity to trot out the same old tired bigotry.
Enter far-right pipsqueak—er, sorry, influencer—Victor Nieves, who went viral for his hot take on why the Court should take up the case, which was so boneheaded even his own followers dragged him for it.
@goodtrouble_ @Victor Nieves hall monitor.
Nieves' take was straight out of 1982: We should overturn same-sex marriage, he says, because it's a slippery slope toward all kinds of absurd marital pairings that have never—and will never—happen, not that they're anyone's business anyway.
According to Nieves:
"[Supporters of same-sex marriage] open Pandora's box. Marriage has to have boundaries. It has to have a definition which was set by God."
Why? Because of things that have never and will never happen, such as:
"There's nothing stopping two brothers from getting married because they're consenting adults. Or how about a mother who's gone through menopause marrying her 18 year old son?
If anyone knows what menopause has to do with this, please let us know.
Nieves went on to warn that allowing same-sex marriage will result in "15 people entering into some weird, freakish corporate marriage," a phrase that doesn't even make any sense.
It's worth noting that same-sex marriage has been legal for 10 years and none of this has happened yet, in part because things like incest are illegal.
But Nieves is hoppin' mad about what HAS happened.
"We've seen the fruits of legalizing gay marriage. We gave it like eight years and all of a sudden we had drag queen story hour in elementary school."
No, we didn't, but okay Victor!
Now obviously, this is flat-out dumb, and even Nieves' own followers thought so.
This is likely because a fun fact conservative "influencers" love to ignore is that repealing same-sex marriage is very unpopular, even with conservatives.
There's no doubt the propaganda has worked: Support for same-sex marriage has fallen substantially in recent years, especially among Republicans.
Nevertheless, the latest polling from March shows that 68% of the country supports same-sex marriage rights, including 44% of Republicans.
Naturally, Nieves doubled-down anyway, scolding his followers for not liking the "unpopular" truth about "gay marriage," and got dragged all over again, most notably by liberal influencers @goodtrouble.
@goodtrouble_ @Victor Nieves a double down? In this economy?
GoodTrouble pointed out that aside from the fact that Nieves' arguments are the same ones used to target interracial marriage decades ago (which is likely no accident), the Trump Administration Nieves voted for is riddled with people who clearly have no regard for "the sanctity of marriage."
Most notable among them is Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth, who impregnated his current and third wife while he was still married to his second.
Then, of course, there's the president himself, a notorious womanizer and adjudicated rapist of women he carried on relations with during three marriages.
Given the outright hypocrisy and incriminatingly bizarre examples Nieves used to make his very dumb point, the backlash has been intense.
Whoever is bankrolling Nieves (and Davis, for that matter) to say this stuff, you might want to consider spending your money elsewhere, because not even conservative weirdos are buying this nonsense.
In the words of the great lesbian pop princess Chappell Roan, good luck babe.
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Riley Gaines Blasted After Calling Trump Critics 'Domestic Terrorists' In Unhinged Tweet
Aug 19, 2025
Fading MAGA darling Riley Gaines found herself facing irrelevance like all the blond "it girls" before her that were once embraced then discarded by MAGA Republican President Donald Trump's followers, like Ann Coulter, Megyn Kelly, Kellyanne Conway, Tomi Lahren, and Kaitlin Bennett.
If that last name made you say, "Who‽," then you know what Gaines is facing.
An influencer's relevance is fleeting, especially if she's a pretty blond woman in the MAGAsphere where they're a dime a dozen and there's always someone younger waiting in the wings to say or do something bigoted or hateful to curry favor.
Like being a mediocre NCAA athlete, but claiming a trans woman who tied with you for 5th place behind four cisgender women, somehow stole something from you when had they not competed you still would have finished in 5th place.
In a desperate attempt to retain her MAGA audience now that she has sole possession of her 5th place finish and the invitations to the White House or Mar-a-Lago are in short supply, Gaines made a wild, unhinged claim about anyone who criticizes Donald Trump.
On Saturday morning, Gaines posted on X—the preferred platform of hateful bigots:
"If you wish for President Trump to fail, you wish for America to fail. And if you wish for America to fail, you’re a domestic terrorist."
Her ridiculous post certainly got attention, but probably not the kind Gaines wanted.
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"one day after 9/11" vibes. can't wait to be arrested by freedom cops and sent to freedom prison.
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Even some blue-checked former MAGA faithful-turned Epstein files demanders showed up to berate Gaines.
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If Gaines expected a flood of attention and approval, she was sorely disappointed.
No one—in 4.7k comments—was cosigning her absurd hot take.
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It appears Riley Gaines 15 minutes is over, with nary a trans woman in sight to blame for her latest failure to place in the winner's circle.
Whatever shall she do?
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Trans Actor Jinkx Monsoon Expertly Shades MAGA Lawmakers Who Are Trying To 'Rewrite History'
Aug 19, 2025
In a very timely off-the-cuff response, Broadway performer Jinkx Monsoon called out MAGA GOP lawmakers and Republican President Donald Trump for their attempts to whitewash history.
Speaking to Good Morning America about her star turn as the lead in Cole Escola’s Tony Award-winning hit Broadway show Oh, Mary!, the hosts proposed a rapid-fire game that they titled "Oh, Jinkx!."
Oh, Mary! is described by Escola, the show's creator and original star, as "a dark comedy about a miserable, suffocated Mary Todd Lincoln in the weeks leading up to Abraham Lincoln’s assassination. Unrequited yearning, alcoholism, and suppressed desires abound in this 80-minute one-act play that finally examines the forgotten life and dreams of Mrs. Lincoln, through the lens of an idiot."
GMA hosts Gio Benitez, Janai Norman and Whit Johnson threw "crazy White House" situations, or at least the Oh, Mary! version of it, at the two-time winner of RuPaul's Drag Race —Season 5 and All-Winners All-Stars—to get Monsoon's immediate reaction.
The game's final situation was:
"You’ve just been told you’re the understudy for Mary’s husband and the show starts in five minutes."
Without hesitation, Monsoon—a transgender woman—responded:
"Well, everyone, this is how it goes. Abraham Lincoln is now a trans woman, and that’s all there is to it."
"Since lawmakers get to rewrite history, why can’t I?"
Monsoon then let loose her signature cackle, which had the GMA hosts laughing along.
You can watch the moment here:
People appreciated Monsoon's honest response—and laugh.
Monsoon's comment is extremely timely as MAGA Republican President Donald Trump launches his "audit" of the Smithsonian Institution and all of the member museums to ensure adherence to his version of United States history.
The US Supreme Court is also facing pressure to overturn marriage equality, an erasure of millennia of Indigenous history in the Americas, where same-sex unions and gender beyond the binary were not only accepted, but embraced. Anti-LGBTQ+ bills, regulations, and executive orders are being proposed and enacted at the state and federal levels.
The Trump administration also removed any mentions of trans and bisexual people from government funded websites like the National Park Service's Stonewall Monument site and purged records of LGBTQ+ service members from Defense Department sites and the online records for Arlington National Cemetery.
Pushback against such revisionist history draped in a flag to hide its White supremacist and Christian nationalist origins direct from Project 2025 is vital.
And as a rising star, Jinkx Monsoon is delivering it.
On Valentine's Day 2025, Monsoon headlined a sold-out one-woman show at Carnegie Hall. Monsoon is also fresh off starring as Ruth in the limited run of Pirates! The Penzance Musical, the jazz-infused Broadway revival of the classic Gilbert and Sullivan operetta, The Pirates of Penzance, which was reset and retooled for a New Orleans setting.
Theatre goers can see Jinkx Monsoon, Kumail Nanjiani, and Michael Urie in Oh, Mary! from August 4 to September 28.
You can watch the full 5-minute GMA interview with Monsoon here:
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People Who Turned Their Lives Around After Age 35 Share How They Did It
Aug 19, 2025
There's this weird pressure in the world to know what you're going to do with your life when you're between 18 and 20, work hard to get it, and then be satisfied with that for the rest of your life. But for many people, they're not in a position to attain their dream life when they're 20 years out.
That said, it's never too late to get a fresh start, even when you're around the middle of your life.
Curious, Redditor Sudden_Tree3904 asked:
"People who completely turned their life around after 35, what made the biggest difference?"
The Marriage Wakeup Call
"I realized I needed to end my marriage around 35. I finally got divorced and started to realize my bad marriage wasn't a fluke. I was repeating a pattern from my family of origin and needed to completely reevaluate my relationship with myself and everyone else in my life."
"I dumped a lot of toxic friends and family, did a lot of self-help and therapy, learned about attachment types and codependency and personal boundaries, and then at 40 met the love of my life, and four years later, we're living our best 'Brady Bunch' life with our kids and cats."
- triflers_need_not
A Business Startup
"I started my own business. It was hard. Really hard."
"I kinda leveraged my marriage a bit to do it, but I went from an unemployed father who did housework and cooked dinners while taking care of the kids to a self-employed father who does housework and cooks dinners while taking care of the kids with an income."
- UnluckyInformation51
Not Time To Go
"Finally realizing I wasn’t going to die by the time I was 30. I figured then that I needed to smarten up and get my act together."
- MooseMalloy
"Whoa, I had a similar expectation for some reason."
- microtramp
"D**n, I wasn’t expecting to find this feeling in a comment here. I am 29, smoking weed daily, and pretty depressed because I somehow think my life is going to end soon anyway."
"It won't, and I will need to fix myself, but how did you get out of that mental space? Like, I can talk about this openly, but I can’t seem to want to change it. I know that I will once I hit rock bottom, but why?? Help."
- tottivega
Security Encourages Happiness
"Finally getting a job that paid better than slave wages."
- Festernd
"Yeah, it's pretty interesting. For decades, I was told, 'Money can't buy happiness,' but then I started making a living wage and realized that money can't buy happiness because money is happiness. It's security."
- knightmare-shark
The Bare Necessities
"Being realistic with things I actually need (Nothing) to function day to day, cutting away all the rest, forming a proper budget, and sticking to it."
"So many people tell themselves they 'need' things and have literally never experienced life without those things."
"Thing is, you can't tell this to people, or they get all huffy and insist that they absolutely need it, or they can't get through life, and it'll take an experience like losing everything (which they'll never go through) in order to understand what I'm saying."
"You can survive out of a bag with one change of clothes. Work up from there."
- LargeSnorlax
Nobody's Coming
"Realizing no one’s coming to save me. Once I stopped waiting for a sign and treated rock bottom like a trampoline instead of a grave, everything changed."
- KittyGoddess99
"I loved this so much, 'treated rock bottom like a trampoline,' though, it’s not easy at all. Never give up on bouncing back."
- Regular-Activity6380
New Scenery
"Leaving my country behind and starting a new life in Spain at 35, 10 years ago. I miss my family, but for the rest, my life's been a total success since then."
- optiloxy
"I daydream about this a lot. I grew up with a great hand of cards where I can legally live and work in many countries, and haven’t liked the trend of where I’ve been living for years. Outlook doesn’t look good, either. I even took on a job where I can work pretty much anywhere."
- Edmfuse
Holding Yourself Back
"Realised how much I was holding myself back mentally and career-wise by daily drinking and smoking weed, used to think after a few beers and smokes I was in my happy place, but realised if you're in your happy place all the time it's not that happy a place."
"Haven't completely turned my life around, but it's going in the right direction, still enjoy a beer and smoke on Saturday nights, but am in a better job and a mentally better place... I don't know how I lived like that for so long."
- Wide_Ad4331
"This really resonates with me, 'If you're in your happy place all the time, it's not that happy a place,' I did something similar. Used to be a daily driver, thinking it was keeping me sane and content, but it just dulls everything down so you think it is. There are better ways to find fulfilment, peace, contentment, and they're harder to earn, but they're worth it."
- edbrat
Your Inner Circle
"Being very cautious about who you let into your life and also learning how to utilize boundaries… a lot of people can take your kindness for granted."
- Chineysphoto
"For me, it was breaking up with my manipulative girlfriend. Putting myself into therapy to cope with the depression. Getting diagnosed with ADHD and medicated."
"Realizing some of my closest friends were toxic af and routinely rooting for me to fail. Finding a creative outlet for my angst. Started life over with a new artistic hobby, cultivated a new circle of friends who were supportive and emotionally intelligent."
- billndotnet
Going Back to School
"Going back to school to gain a career. Not that I didn't do well; prior, I was in construction, but having a Career and not a job was definitely an empowering moment for me and changed my life completely."
- enek101
Diagnosis And Transformation
"33 here, but in the middle of a huge personal metamorphosis. I finally got an ADHD diagnosis and medications that work, and suddenly I'm extroverted, and outgoing, and chatty. Turns out anxiety medications were only half the battle."
"It's actually an issue because my family can't reconcile the sudden change. My mom actually... Kind of doesn't like me that much anymore, and gets pretty angry over the whole prospect of me 'needing medication at all.'"
- whenjacksattack
"I dealt with that in high school and college when I was treating my depression and ADHD. My big mistake was allowing my family, in the beginning, to dictate my medication use with their judgment, of using medication as 'a crutch,' all while asking me when I'm getting my next refill so they can scalp off it."
"It's an uncomfortable transition for your family because they're not used to you defining yourself. They'll get over it."
- BetterThanSydney
A Hopeful Mindset
"I read Robert Wright's book on Buddhism."
"I'm not an avid follower of Buddhism or anything, but the way he explained impermanence really opened my eyes about life, love, pain, emotions, consciousness, and beliefs. (There are some deeply weird (imo) implications of impermanence in Buddhism that I won't go into, to stay on topic.)"
"Basically, if you are in pain now, or anxious, or sad, or angry, etc. Ask yourself if you have always been like that. If the answer is NO (and it always will be), that can't be who you are. If you were happy once, you can be happy again. Not saying it's easy, but it flipped my perspective."
"This helped me get out of a rut, helped me change careers. It also works the other way. If you are successful, worth remembering that you weren't always there. Keeps you humble."
- rojeli
Goodbye, Toxicity
"Dropping all of the toxicity out of my life and burning it all. Telling my abusive mother to go f**k herself after telling her exactly how I feel about her. God, that felt good."
"Quitting alcohol and dropping the s**tty 'friends.' Taking care of myself first, mentally and physically. Started making huge strides in my career by taking the risks I was always scared of."
"I used to navigate life through the lens of fear, and I'm just not willing to do it anymore. It made me a better everything. I feel like I can finally step into the world as the best version of myself. Win-win for all!"
- anewstartforu
Practicing Self-Love
"It’s wild how much basic self-care, sleep, diet, exercise, can feel like a superpower once you actually commit to it. Losing weight was a game-changer for me, too, not just physically but in how the world responds to you (and how you show up for yourself)."
"Cutting out toxic people and habits is like removing anchors holding you back from that momentum. Funny how the 'boring' stuff ends up being the secret sauce to turning everything around."
- chaitalyy
Healthy Habits For The Win
"Realizing that no matter what you do in life, you’ll enjoy it more if you get proper sleep, exercise, and eat well, and then actually implement good habits."
"Different people will enjoy different jobs, activities, and partners, but for 99.9% of people, being rested, fit, and healthfully nourished will give you a clear head and the energy to get done whatever you want to do."
"Also, as you age, it becomes even more necessary to monitor these three things. I see people my age (43) who don’t have these things well managed, and even small missteps have awful consequences."
- Fezzik_
When people think of turning their lives around, they commonly think of making a major career change, but there are so many ways you could change your life for the better, in whatever way you need, and at whatever age you choose.
You just have to say yes to yourself.
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