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AOC Has Iconic Reaction After She's Asked If She Could Beat JD Vance In 2028 Presidential Election
Dec 19, 2025
New York Democratic Representative Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez had quite the response to recent polling that suggested she could beat Vice President JD Vance in a hypothetical 2028 presidential election.
A new poll from The Argument/Verasight shows Ocasio-Cortez narrowly edging out Vance in a hypothetical 2028 presidential matchup, with 51 percent of respondents backing her and 49 percent supporting him.
The survey was conducted December 5–11 among 1,521 registered voters and has a margin of error of 2.5 percentage points, placing the contest within statistical reach for either candidate.
The findings come as other polling suggests growing enthusiasm for Ocasio-Cortez among younger Democrats. A recent Yale Youth Poll found her leading the field in a hypothetical 2028 Democratic primary, outpacing figures such as former Vice President Kamala Harris and California Governor Gavin Newsom by double digits.
Ocasio-Cortez even drew attention to the The Argument/Verasight poll herself when she—only commenting "Bloop!"—shared it with her social media followers.
The poll results prompted Pablo Manríquez, the editor of Migrant Insider, to ask for her thoughts:
“Do you think you could beat JD Vance in a head-to-head race for president, as polling suggests, in 2028?”
Ocasio-Cortez laughed and said the following before entering a waiting car:
“Listen, these polls, like, three years out, are, you know, they are what they are. But the let record show I would stomp him. I would stomp him!"
You can watch what happened in the video below.
People couldn't get enough of her reaction.
And hey, Manríquez himself agreed:
"Note: I have EXTENSIVELY covered both AOC and Vance since they got to Washington DC ... more than any other reporter — and she would totally stomp him."
You can see his post below.
Vance would definitely have an uphill battle come 2028—especially since recent polling results show how fatigued voters are with President Donald Trump and his administration.
Emerson College Polling’s final national survey of 2025 shows Trump ending the year with 41 percent approval and 50 percent disapproval. These results are almost identical to the results recorded in November. The numbers mark a complete reversal from his inauguration, when 49 percent of voters approved of his performance and 41 percent disapproved.
We wonder if Vance is now having some regrets about attaching his horse to that cart.
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People Break Down The Greatest Comeback Stories They've Ever Heard
Dec 19, 2025
At the 1964 Summer Olympic Games in Tokyo, Japan, runner Billy Mills won the 10k meter race—the first and still only runner from the United States to win Olympic gold in the 10k.
Mills is a member of the Oglala Lakȟóta tribe of the Očhéthi Šakówiŋ (Sioux Nation) from Pine Ridge Reservation in South Dakota. Mills' Mother Grace died when he was 8 years old and his Father Sidney died when he was 12.
A survivor of the Indian Boarding School system, Mills struggled with his stamina while running during his days at Haskell Indian School and at the University of Kansas, which was later linked to undiagnosed Type-2 diabetes.
Earning an athletic scholarship from KU, Mills was a three-time NCAA All-America cross-country runner and won the Big Eight cross-country championship in 1960. After graduating, Mills joined the United States Marine Corps and was still active duty when he competed in Tokyo in 1964.
An American announcer famously exclaimed "Look at Mills, look at Mills!" as he overtook the runners favored to win in the final moments of the 10k race.
Mills is now a revered figure in both the running community and among Indigenous peoples.
He is a motivational speaker dedicated to helping Indigenous youth in the United States through the organization he co-founded, Running Strong for American Indian Youth.
Mills wasn't expected to win in Tokyo and in the last lap he was jostled and fell behind the frontrunners.
"When Billy was passed by others, they bumped and jostled him. When Billy turned on the jets, he went outside letting his opponents have their line. He has been such a good champion, always sharing. A true and gracious champion."
His unexpected win in Tokyo and in life is viewed as a great comeback from lifelong adversity.
People love a great comeback story.
They can provide happiness, hope and inspiration.
Reddit user DubNation365 asked:
"What is the single greatest comeback story of all time?"
Humanity
"Humanity."
"Humans/Hominids got smacked down to a population of around 2,400-2,500 individuals around 800,000-900,000 years ago during the Pleistocene Epoch (2.6 million to 11,700 years ago).
"During the Holocene Epoch, hominids rebounded to over eight billion Homo sapiens sapiens by 2025 AD."
~ Dansken525600
Apple
"When I was young, Apple were an also-ran who were just about holding on selling beige boxes to a few rare arty types. You'd put them alongside other dead/dying platforms like Commodore or Atari and everything was going to be commodity PC clones in slightly different boxes forever."
"Then, BOOM - iMac G3 was suddenly hotter than the sun, Apple were seriously cool, and Steve Jobs was the new messiah. Then iPod and iPhone and iPad and Apple pretty much have a licence to print money."
~ JCDU
"By 1997, the company was worth less than $2 billion. That is, of course, a lot of money, but for a company that old and that size, it's basically a stepping stone on the way to bankruptcy."
"Today it is worth almost $4 TRILLION."
~ froction
Cyberpunk 2077
"'Cyberpunk 2077' video game. The hype was indescribable. They delayed it like 4 times. And it was STILL a piece of sh*t when it launched."
Still, the developers stuck with it. Patch after patch. Update after update. Now, ~5 years after it first launched, it's a pretty f*ckin' good game. Best videogame 'comeback story' of all time."
~ b_wald81
"Not gonna lie, I was on the hype train and immediately bought the game at launch. Had no idea it was getting the hate that it was because I was having too good a time playing it."
"The story and the world absolutely sucked me right in. Even with its initial warts, you could tell someone had put a lot of love into this game."
"Enjoyed the heck of it then, enjoy it from time to time now."
~ JupiterTarts
Boston Red Sox
"Boston Red Sox over New York Yankees, down 3-0. No team in professional baseball in the MLB had ever come back from a 3-0 deficit in a best-of-7 series. No other MLB team has done it since. The Astros made it back to 3-3 in 2020, but lost Game 7."
"Other than that, it's happened four times in hockey in the NHL. That's it."
"The Yankees had played in 6 World Series out of 8 since 1996. They had won four, including three in a row from 1998-2000. In 2003, they had defeated the Red Sox to reach the World Series in a 7 game affair that still hurts to think about."
"They were on a somewhat downward trajectory, but still very much the team that had put together the last great MLB dynasty. They had also recently acquired the best player in baseball."
"The Red Sox had famously gone without a World Series win since 1918, despite being one of the most beloved franchises in the country and fielding some of the greatest players in history. Often losing in spectacular, heartbreaking fashion."
"Their history with the Yankees is national folklore that they often ended up on the wrong side of, from the Babe to Boone. The 2003-2004 seasons are generally regarded as the peak of that rivalry. All throughout the season words were thrown around, hitters were beaned, benches were cleared and punches were thrown whenever these two teams met. It was electric."
"To top it off, these teams couldn't have looked more different. The Yankees were clean-cut and professional. The Red Sox were loud-mouthed, had big hair and beards and called themselves 'Idiots'. The two teams meeting in the ALCS, in a repeat of the previous season's showdown, felt like fate."
"In the first three games, the Yankees had been surgical, culminating in a devastating 19-8 win in Game 3. The Sox had looked empty and helpless in those three games. Their best pitcher all season was injured and their ace for the past few seasons (and GOAT starting pitcher) was having a down year."
"They were down one run in the bottom of the ninth in Game 4 facing the greatest closer of all time. They were three outs away from their season being over, with three more chances for the Yankees to seal it."
"They were simply not supposed to win."
"Then Millar walks, Roberts steals 2nd after a hundred pickoff attempts, Mueller brings him home. Ortiz finishes it in the 12th and they don't lose another game until April."
"Not to mention, they win three more World Series after that—more than any other team in the 20th century so far—when generations of Sox fans had come and gone without witnessing one. People visited graves that week to tell relatives who passed waiting for a Sox win."
"It was a strange, magical, wonderful week that is forever etched into the brains of every Red Sox fan, and forever changed what the team stood for. 'Back to Foulke', 'he can keep running all the way to New York' and other calls from that postseason are enough to trigger chills in any fan to this day."
"They keep making documentaries about it 20 years on because honestly, it'd sound cheesy if it was a movie concept."
~ sbrockLee
Nelson Mandela
"Nelson Mandela, from 27 years in prison to becoming the president of South Africa."
~ Acrobatic-Isopod5292
"He was classed as a terrorist by the White supremacist government of South Africa and therefore persona non grata in the United States, even while the rest of the world was singing 'Free Nelson Mandela', aware that he was a victim of apartheid and had been unjustly locked up for decades."
~ Salome_Maloney
Mick Doohan
"Grand Prix Motorcycle rider Mick Doohan getting back on that bike after almost losing his leg in a horrible accident, escaping the hospital to meet with what I would call a real life Dr Frankenstein who sewed his legs together to save the bad one."
"Came back to win four championships."
~ unbearablebastard
Mulholland Drive
"David Lynch's film 'Mulholland Drive'."
"It was originally a TV pilot that ABC decided not to pick up as a series. That seemed like the sad end of the story. It happens all the time; people put all that work and hope into a pilot, but it doesn't pan out, so they lick their wounds and move onto something else."
"But then a year later a light-bulb went off above Lynch's head: maybe if he filmed new scenes to give the pilot an ending then he could turn it into a proper film—luckily it had been made on 35mm film, not standard definition video."
"To cut a long story short, now 'Mulholland Drive' regularly appears on 'Greatest Films of All Time' lists."
~ RunDNA
Romans, Battle of Zama
"The Romans at the Battle of Zama in 202 BC has to be up there."
"The legendary Hannibal Barca had crushed them in several battles leading up to it and Rome was essentially on it's knees and made one last attempt to quell Hannibal and put an end to the Punic Wars."
"This was before Rome really popped off too."
~ B0DZILLA
"I would like to add that 'crushed' is if anything an understatement of what Hannibal had done to Rome."
"The combined casualties of Trebia, Lake Traseimene, and Cannae was a significant percentage of Rome’s entire population. Some estimate that a full 20 percent of the adult male population were killed in that campaign, something like 100,000 men in two years."
"We’re talking something like Russia's WW2 casualty percentages equivalent, but in less than half the time, mostly due to only a few battles, and it taking out a decent amount of the Roman leadership at the same time."
"That's like not just war losing amounts of damage, but civilization ending levels for most places."
~ JMHSrowing
Rocky Bleier
"If you like sports comebacks, Rocky Bleier is a real tear jerker. NFL player sent to Vietnam and was wounded by a grenade and gunshot in the legs."
"Told he would never play football again. Took him several years of rehab but made it back to play and win in a superbowl in the 70s with the Steelers."
~ N2trvl
"Told he may have to walk with a cane the rest of his life."
Telegram sent from owner Dan Rooney to Rocky Bleier while he was recovering in a military hospital: 'Rock. The team's not doing so well. We need you back'."
"A few years after he was back, he had a thousand yard season."
~ Lawyering_Bob
Ghengis Khan
"I can't think of a bigger known example than Ghengis Khan. He was a boy when his father, a tribal leader, was murdered."
"The tribe didn't honor his inheritance. He and his mother were abandoned by the tribe to live in poverty. He was even enslaved as a teenager."
"He had no military or political inheritance to work with. So he had to start from scratch."
"Suffice to say, he made a comeback."
~ MrSahab
Steven Bradbury
"I’m going for Australian short-track speed skater Steven Bradbury, from last place to 1st, getting him a gold medal at the Olympics."
~ HallettCove5158
"Most people know of everyone falling down and him being last man standing to win, but his injury comeback is massive."
"He lost four litres of blood after his quad was sliced pretty much right through."
~ StockholmSyndrome85
Niki Lauda
"Austrian race car driver Niki Lauda."
"Almost died (was given last rites in the hospital), burned half his face off and was back in the car after 6 weeks. Pure legend."
"The movie Rush is about Niki Lauda."
~ lordblum
"Was looking for someone to mention Lauda. Beat his two teammates on his return at Monza despite still not being recovered and with blood seeping into his balaclava."
"Won more races and titles after his accident. Never bothered to get cosmetic surgery except to fix his eyelids. Absolute legend."
~ reverend-frog
Kurt Angle
"Kurt Angle winning an Olympic gold medal with a broken neck was pretty great honestly."
"Dude had a doctor give him shots to numb his neck before each match until he won. Petty cool story if you hear him tell the full version."
~ Iamaman88
"He’s also gone through an insane amount of personal trauma (dad died when he was a teen in a construction accident, his wrestling coach who was like a father to him was murdered, his sister OD’d on heroin, several of his brothers have been in severe legal trouble [including one who killed his own wife], his ex wife cheated on him with his boss when he was in TNA and he had a severe painkiller addiction [100+ pills a day], then started drinking alongside the pills and got several DUIs and basically hit rock bottom before getting clean and sober and turned his life around."
"The fact that he’s relatively healthy (he has permanent damage from the neck surgeries but can still function on a day to day basis) and seemingly happy after everything he went through is inspiring."
~ LTS55
Terunofuji Haruo
"Sumo wrestler (rikishi) Terunofuji Haruo."
"He reached the second highest rank (ozeki) before devastating knee injuries crippled him in 2017. He withdrew from several tournaments leading to him dropping down to the second lowest division (jonidan) before beginning to fight again in 2019 and managed to climb back through all the ranks and eventually take the white rope being promoted to the highest rank Yokozuna in 2021."
"He would win 10 top division championships before retiring in 2025 and is now the coach of the Isegahama Stable."
~ sgtaxt
Hometown Hero
"Girl I went to high school with. Cancer survivor as a child, had kids as a teenager, absent parents, bad people around her all together. Rough family in a rough part of town. No car no nothing."
"Managed to still graduate high school top of her class, got into a nursing program, got on the bus and went to nursing program with two kids strapped to her that she constantly had to deal with admin, other classmates complaining, still got her nursing degree, kept doing school plus nursing career plus raising kids all alone, no family support, no significant other, and now is a very prominent nurse administrator at a local hospital making six figures."
"Kids turned into hard-working teenagers. She runs outreach programs and is a pillar of her community."
"And still just the friendliest, funniest, smartest, most driven person."
~ BrosephBruckuss
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People Who Work In Someone Else's Home Share The Most Revealing Things They've Noticed
Dec 18, 2025
Going into strangers' homes isn't the most fun thing to do.
I always get nervous.
Who knows what is lurking on the other side of those front doors?
Do they mop their floors properly?
Do they overuse patchuli?
You never know how many cats there are, and there are always cats.
My allergies are always flaring.
But we bite the bullet.
Sometimes you have no other choice but to enter people's homes for work.
Redditor cossie101 wanted everyone to share about the things they've seen when going in and out of people's homes while working, so they asked:
"Professionals who enter people's homes (plumbers, electricians, cleaners): What is something the condition of a house tells you about the owner that they don't realize they are revealing?"
Don't Judge
"Former cable technician. It told me that I do not know what someone is going through at the moment. Right now, my in-laws are living with me while their new home is being built, and keeping a house clean with SEVEN children is the most uphill battle."
- Brilliant-Clothes637

Don't get flued!
"Maybe not what you’re looking for, but I once worked in a house in winter that had the fireplace going with the flue shut. The house was blanketed in smoke, and they disconnected all the smoke alarms. When I showed them how to open the flue, they both lost their minds. Apparently, they’d been living like that for years."
"I would love to be that oblivious. It seems easier."
- Striking_Yard_295
Cleanliness is next to Godliness
"I used to paint home interiors. 40 years of being in other people's homes."
"One customer was the retired municipal court judge. His house was neat as a pin. Almost minimalist, and tasteful."
"He wanted to have his basement floor epoxied. I told him it would take 2 days, I'd move everything to one side of the basement and paint half, then the next day I'd move everything to the other side and paint the cleared side."
"He gave me kindof a funny look and said let's go down to the basement, and you can measure. Cool."
"We go down there, and besides the furnace, the only other thing down there was a fold-up ping pong table. The place was immaculate. You could eat off the concrete floor."
"I have never seen anything like it. That's almost 40 years ago, and it still amazes me. My basement is full of stuff. Old furniture, Christmas decorations, tools, you name it, it's down there."
"We folded up the ping pong table and slid it into its niche, and everything was good to go. Nothing even to sweep."
"The judge ended up being a great client and a very sweet guy. He was very good to me over the years."
"The most organized man I ever knew."
"It turns out he went to Annapolis and was a naval officer in WWII. I wonder if that's where he got it, or if it just came naturally. Probably a little bit of both."
- jonthepain
Be Quiet!
"I went into one house, a pretty nice house from the outside, and there were boxes and boxes of stuff everywhere. My helper said to the homeowner, 'Are you guys just moving in?' After a moment of silence, the homeowner said, embarrassed, 'We've been here 10 years.' I told my helper later not to ask people questions like that."
- MadAdam88
QUIRKS
"Lots of people here are talking about how gross people are. Some people are just quirky."
"Went into someone’s house (mover) and everything was pink. Floor, walls, ceiling, furniture, their clothing, etc."
"Except their bedroom, that was lime green."
- Garybird1989
"This is the kind of comment I came here for. We all know that lots of people are gross, lots of people are hoarders - we don’t need a Reddit thread to tell us that."
"I wanna hear about the interesting and unexpected stuff people have found!"
- Careless_Studio_1293
COZY
"I often had the opposite experience, stepping over junkies to get to an apartment in 'the projects' only to have the door open and reveal a little oasis: an immaculate and cozy space."
- Dense-Layer-2078

On the Inside
"I used to deliver furniture and appliances, and one of the store’s selling points was that we took the old items for free."
"Houses where people smoked were the worst. We replaced a sofa with a custom one, and when we pulled the old sofa away from the wall, there was an almost cartoonish outline of it. Except it was outlined by years of cigarette smoke. The walls were white, but stained yellow as you would expect. Beyond disgusting and sad to think about what it does to a person on the inside."
- swartz77
In Filth
"My dad did home renovations and repairs during the wintertime. He has his top three awful homes… the worst being the piss house. He was called out for a bid on all new flooring. When he pulled up, the smell hit him outside. He broke off two cigarette butt filters and shoved them up his nose, put an N95 mask on, and stepped in. First thing that happened was the squishy carpets… every surface of the carpet was soaked down to the subfloor in animal urine."
"It ate all the way down through the subflooring. The original hardwood floors were covered in black splotches of urine-soaked areas. The house was lined with walkways shuffled and made through piles of pee-filled boxes and trash. There were so many cats and dogs running around with s**t-covered paws. The cockroaches were so bad that they were visible in broad daylight. Needless to say, he called animal control and turned down the job."
- Heem_butt08
Jessica...
"Used to sell floors and had to do in-home appointments. I have seen some of the worst of the worst when it comes to messiness. The one that did it for me was when I went to an appointment for 'Jessica.' I knock, and an 8-year-old boy opens with 2 malnourished dogs coming to sniff my shoes. I look around, and there is trash and feces everywhere, and the smell is unbearable. I ask the boy where his mom Jessica, is."
"He says, 'My mom is in the mental hospital?' I said okay, where is dad? He says, 'I don’t know, he hasn’t been here in days.' Then the 8-year-old boy goes to show me this gigantic hole in the floor. It was, in fact, the little kid who booked the appointment in his mom’s name. I told him, 'Let me call my team to make sure I pick the right floor for this.' I stepped out, called my manager, and told them about the situation, and I immediately called the police for a welfare check. That was my last week as an in-home flooring salesperson. I hope he is in a better position now."
- jstanotherdaytrader
Suddenly
"I clean because I do not want to trip on things. My brother tripped, hit his head, and died instantly, at age 46, so that's a lesson learned. Dying tripping is true."
"We are all eventually gonna die, but of course we want to delay the inevitable. He died of what he could have avoided. So, let’s just all take it as a lesson in life. Cleanliness really pays off."
- tamyzster
Lived In
"I'm a cleaner, but most of the houses I clean are already fairly clean. I can definitely infer things about how 'lived-in' the house is. I can tell the people who's fanily life is very important and have a lot of fun with their kids because their houses have messes in places, crayon drawings, projects, photos up a lot, and travel books or summer camp brochures. Other people might not have kids but have lots of pets, or cooking messes, or artwork on all the walls. I can tell these people are home bodies sometimes, but they try to live life to the fullest."
"Some people, the vibe is... colder. less clutter or mess, everything in its place. Less cooking oil and spices spilled on the stove, the furniture in the living room is less indented and disturbed. Cleaned a house once where it looked like the husband and wife lived on opposite sides of the upstairs and hardly interacted."
- Beautiful_Mind9015
I kid you not...
"My husband is a pest controller, and the things he sees would literally make your hair curl. Babies covered in bed bug bites, with parents who cannot be bothered to do the prep work needed, such as washing the baby’s bedding before the treatment- I kid you not. Beds are alive with bed bugs and living like it for YEARS. People living with rats as part of their normal life."
- Admirable_Holiday653
Apologies
"The ones with the cleanest homes always apologise about the ‘mess’, while those with the filthiest, smelliest, cluttered to the max homes never even hint at being embarrassed by their state of living."
- CapableMaterial735
"This is not just a coincidence. A lot of people who are messy simply don't see it as an issue. People who take the time to clean do it because they see being messy as a problem. In between are the people who are messy all the time except when they're expecting guests, and then they straighten up."
"It's all a matter of perspective."
- miraculum_one
Keep your shoes on!
"I had a job that required me to enter homes to measure windows. Many were messy, cluttered, and/or dirty. One in particular was all three and had more dogs and cats than I could count. Ironically, the owner asked if I minded taking off my shoes, which I usually did, but this time I did so with a great deal of reluctance. Sure enough, my very first step was into a puddle of urine. Not sure if it was dog car or child, but definitely urine. Started taking those little shoe covers with me everywhere after that!"
- TopJimmy237
Always bring your own!
"As someone who has been associated with both homes and automobiles, I can tell you that I will never eat at a potluck again."
- muhhuh
"This comment made me smile, then think, then shudder a little bit. Ick."
- salacious_pickle
"Couldn't agree more. Watched a guy mix up the food he brought with his hands. No washing them first or anything. Can't even tell you how many times I'd be washing my hands in the bathroom and I'd watch this guy walk out of the stall and straight out the door."
- wearelegion1134

Never trust a potluck.
The stories people's kitchens could tell.
That is definitely a danger zone!
No joke, death by tripping is one of my odd fears.
Fear confirmed!
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Woman Weirded Out After Receiving Wedding Invitation From Couple She's Never Met
Dec 18, 2025
Generally, getting mail that's specifically addressed to us, and especially receiving packages, is a fun experience. But every once in a while, it causes more confusion than it's worth.
Instagrammer and comedian Julia Leahy had been waiting for a package and was particularly excited when she thought it had arrived. Instead, she received an envelope with her name and address on it.
Inside was a save-the-date wedding invitation, complete with a magnet of the happy couple that wedding guests could put on their fridge to remind them of the upcoming big day.
The problem was that Leahy had never heard of either of these people. She had no idea who they were.
She thought at first that maybe they went to school together, worked together, performed in theater together, and even made a joke about finally making JonBenét Ramsey’s killer comfortable enough to come forward and confess.
However, she did not recognize the bride or groom's names, and upon closer inspection of the save-the-date photos, she was certain that this had to be a mistake and that the invitation was meant for someone else.
But if it really was a mistake, why did it have her name on it? Being addressed to someone who used to live at her address would be one thing, but the fact that her name specifically was on the invitation really stirred suspicions up.
You can watch the Instagram reel here:
Some were weirded out by a stranger having Leahy's address and even putting her name on it.





Even Instagrammer @kaitlynhelkey, who was allegedly the bride, was weirded out by the incident.

Nevertheless, the comment section was insistent about Leahy attending this wedding.

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It remains unclear how Leahy ended up with this invitation, especially since she doesn't know anyone from Colorado, doesn't know the bride or the groom, and the alleged bride doesn't know her or her comedic genius, either.
More than likely, there is some long-winded explanation, like a friend of a friend of the family, twice removed, or an uncle who divorced and remarried into the family a decade later. The best thing Leahy could probably do is reach out to her family to see if they know about this wedding and can explain the connection.
In the meantime, it seems the bride and groom have gained a very spritely and polite guest, perhaps even the perfect person to provide that little bit of comedic relief that every wedding would benefit from.
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Stay-At-Home Mom Offers Dire Warning For Other Moms After Husband Suddenly Files For Divorce
Dec 18, 2025
We've all heard the advice to not put all of our eggs in one basket, and while we generally think of that in terms of work, so that if one form of income dries up, we'll have a backup plan, it can apply to our relationships, too.
While it's perfectly okay to be in a monogamous relationship, we shouldn't place all of our happiness in our partner, or measure our sense of self-worth solely through the relationship, and it can be risky to fully depend on our partners financially.
TikToker @cortneygetsfit was finding out the trouble that could put her in at the age of 37, with a five-year-old and seven-year-old who depend on her, after her husband suddenly wanted to get a divorce.
She'd been out of the workforce for about ten years, in preparation for having children, raising them, and caring for their home. She didn't have any separate savings, and she hadn't worked from home outside of her duties as a stay-at-home mom.
Instead, she'd depended on a single credit card that her husband had paid off each month. Now that he wanted a divorce, he planned to shut off the credit card and take her off of his medical insurance plan, leaving her to wonder how she would get a job quickly enough and with a high enough income to cover all of her expenses for herself and her children.
You can watch the video here:
@cortneygetsfit I never thought I’d be here. 37 years old. Two kids. No income. No safety net. And suddenly being told I need to ‘use my own card’ when I don’t even HAVE one. This is the reality for so many stay-at-home moms — and nobody prepares us for it. Maybe this is why I’ve been drowning in anxiety and depression. But I’m sharing it because too many of us are suffering in silence. If you’re going through something similar, you’re not alone. We deserve security. We deserve support. We deserve to feel safe starting over. #sahm #womenempowerment #divorcesupport #mentalhealthmatters #momsoftiktok @Cortney Gets Fit Save this post + Share it with another woman who needs this
Some fellow TikTokers urged @cortneygetsfit to get an attorney as soon as possible to acquire support.





Others felt this was a cautionary tale to never fully depend on someone else for financial support.





TikToker @cortneygetsfit was in total agreement with the individuals who said that this was the exact reason that women, particularly stay-at-home moms, should not depend entirely on their husbands. Even in the best relationships, that's technically financial abuse, as the wife has no access to money that could be the difference between life and death.
It's important to have a savings account, invest, or even have a part-time or freelance position from home, so that the résumé continues to develop, and money continues to flow. It'll be a nice buffer in the best of relationships, but it will quickly become a necessity in the worst of ones.
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