People Divulge What Surprised Them Most About Becoming An Adult

The following Redditors were not ready to process the inevitable when it came to their parents.

A Role Reversal

"Watching your parents becoming old and frail."

– Mrbusybaconandeggs

"Dealing with this yesterday and it is an eye-opener. Its hard seeing someone you’ve known as a pillar of strength for 30+ years in a position of such weakness, and knowing that he might improve but generally the decline is coming."

– Rook1872

Age-Defying

"I've had a weird atypical experience. My dad was pretty old when I was born and always had a bad knee he could never afford to get fixed. He could barely walk and has never been able to run since I could remember. It got so bad that he couldn't even walk up or down the stairs in our house."

"Well he eventually got a knee replacement and he's now more agile at 73 than he was at 53. It's weird to see."

– Downtown_Skill

Sad Epiphany

"I'll never forget when I first realized how frail they actually were. I went over to their house to help out with some chores, and they couldn't even clean out any of the pens by themselves. They ended up selling most of their animals that year because they couldn't look after them."

– thecanadiancowboy

Life Can Be Cruel

"It’s slowly beginning with my parents, small hints here and there, they’re in their mid 50s.The big freak out for me has been watching my grandparents slowly declining over the last 3ish years. One set of grandparents have been gone since I was a kid, so these two are all I’ve got now. My Pap’s arthritis and sciatica is to the point now where it’s a process for him just to stand up. 2020 I saved him from a fall, if I wasn’t there to catch him, he would’ve easily been in the hospital for quite a while. That was the first 'Oh sh*t, he’s not immortal' moment."

– NoinePiecesOfVinyl

These Redditors discovered older doesn't always mean wiser.

Wake-Up Call

"I can do whatever the f'k I want. But I don't really want to do anything..."

– IcarusWax

"Yup, the idea of doing whatever you want as an adult was the biggest scam cartoons sold us."

"Yeah, you can do anything you want but you're gonna need money. So you get a job, there goes most of your day to your job."

"So now you have money but that'll go to bills first and by the time you can do what you want you don't have the energy or funds. Then the loop continues.."

– JimmyJackJericho

Fake It Til You Make It

"How clueless other adults are. I really thought adults had their sh*t in order while in reality most people are winging it."

–= xepci0

"Maturity is a skill. Some people learn it quickly. Others never do."

"Children are limited by their youth. Their brains aren't fully developed. But adults are not guaranteed to get more mature without working for it."

"Some people never grow up. They just get old."

– snapwillow

Being Independent

"I'm surprised by the amount of people who genuinely couldn't live by themselves if they had to. They somehow never learned basic life skills like simple cooking or cleaning and always had someone else to do it for them."

– CliffExcellent123

People became more aware of time.

Not Enough Me Time

"How little free time you have. You have to work, you have to prepare for work, drive to work, drive home from work. You also have to do household chores. You have to take care of kids if you have some. When do I get to enjoy my hobbies?"

– lllSnowmanlll

Point Of Exhaustion

"Most of the time I'm so tired from the day, I just don't have the mental capacity to do anything but go right to bed and watch tv ;_;"

– WitherWithout

Never Going Back

"Transitioning from college student + part time worker to full time worker I gained a bunch of time back. I was shocked that I could just decide to do laundry tomorrow if I didn't feel like it. Every evening I had this huge chunk of time that was just open."

"But then, moving from an apartment to a house, now there's a bunch more chores to do. Then introducing kids, now there's all that. But still, I wouldn't go back to the hectic college life."

– civilwarcorpses

Marking Time

"How it just goes on endlessly."

"When you're a kid, there's a summer break every year, and a new school to go to in a couple of years. Whatever part of your life you are in is clearly delimited and there is something new to look forward to after it."

"Once you're an adult, it's just 5 days of work and 2 days of weekend over and over and over until you die."

– Suitable_Mistake2208

After having a decent, long run in the entertainment business as a dancer, I've long held the belief I was invincible.

I was physically stronger, more agile, and foolish enough to think I could perpetually live in such a state.

All of a sudden, reality smacked me in the face one morning when I woke up and heard and felt various parts of my body crackle and pop like when milk hits a bowl of Rice Krispies.

My tired body had the audacity to inform me:

"Not today and from this day forward."

We're currently not on speaking terms.