Australian footballer—soccer in the United States—and star athlete Josh Cavallo came out as gay in an emotional video that's been viewed 4.8 million times.
The video was posted to the official Adelaide United Twitter account with the simple caption, "Josh's truth."
Cavallo started with soft piano underscoring his words.
"There's something personal that I need to share with everyone: I'm a footballer, and I am gay."
"Growing up, I always felt the need to hide myself, because I was ashamed.
"I was ashamed I'd never be able to do what I love, and be gay."
"Hiding who I truly am to pursue a dream I always wished for as a kid."
"All I want to do is play football and be treated equally."
"I'm tired of trying to perform at the best of your ability and to live this double life. It's exhausting.
"It's something that I don't want anyone to experience."
Josh's Truth pic.twitter.com/NKSEP2kVWV
— Adelaide United (@AdelaideUnited) October 27, 2021
Cavallo—who also represented Australia at the junior level—thought people would think of him differently and treat him differently if he came out as gay.
He continued:
"But that's not the case."
"If anything, you earn more respect from people."
"Coming out to my loved ones, my peers, my friends, my teammates, my coaches has been incredible."
"The response and support I have received is immense — it's starting to make me think, 'Why have I been hiding this burden for so long?'"
Cavallo wanted to encourage those who are struggling to come out.
"Don't act like someone you're not."
"Be yourself. You were meant to be yourself, not someone else."
Researcher Erik Denison at Monash University looked into athletes coming out in sport on an international scale. He hopes Cavallo's public coming out will encourage others in the sport to come out as well.
Denison noted Cavallo is only the fourth Australian man to come out as gay while playing any sport at the elite level.
"Unfortunately, it is very rare for male players to come out to their teammates in both professional and amateur sport."
"I am glad to see Football Australia has publicly supported Cavallo, but it now needs to fulfil the public commitments it made in 2014 to 'eradicate' homophobia from the sport with meaningful action."
Cavallo told Australia's 10 television network he should have been celebrating the end of the last season and an award he received. But it was what he didn't feel that prompted Cavallo to go public before the start of the season.
He said:
"There was lots of positivity happening in my life. But when I got home, I just felt numb. I had no emotions."
"My life was great, but it wasn't a life where I got to be my authentic self."
"Instead of celebrating, I sat in my bed crying that night."
"Having to constantly lie to the people I cared about wasn't the way I wanted to live the rest of my life."
"My double life started to have a huge influence on my mental health."
"Although the football was amazing, I still wasn't happy."
He made a post on his own Twitter account as well.
pic.twitter.com/CwrfpeWRVL
— Josh Cavallo (@JoshuaCavallo) October 27, 2021
Cavallo want's to change the game for gay footballers.
"In football, you only have a small window to achieve greatness, and coming out publicly may have a negative impact on a career."
"As a gay footballer, I know there are other players living in silence."
"I want to help change this, to show that everyone is welcome in the game of football, and deserves the right to be their authentic self."
He received thousands of comments from fans supporting his coming out.
We're with you, Josh!
Thank you for your courage. 👊🏾
— Vasco da Gama (@VascodaGama) October 27, 2021
Bravo Josh! The more positive role models we have in football the more we can influence the future of the game we love. Solidarity from South London to South Australia ✊🏳️🌈
— Proud and Palace (@ProudandPalace) October 27, 2021
Right on man. Wouldn't be surprised to see Ted Lasso cover this issue in their next season. A long overdue conversation. Strength to you, I am sure your words and actions will inspire and help many others in similar situations.
— red hot chili willie (@chilitown_pope) October 27, 2021
I remember when the Football Manager game first introduced players coming out. A vocal minority claimed it was unrealistic, unneeded, etc.
It's great to see players comfortable to be themselves.
— Kaervek FC (@KaervekFC) October 27, 2021
Thank you for your strength and courage, Josh - for being you and for the good of the game we all love. Respect and support from everyone at Everton. 💙
— Everton (@Everton) October 27, 2021
I'll never forget the '07 @aleaguemen grand final between @gomvfc and @AdelaideUnited. I screamed "I'M MELBOURNE TILL I DIE!" at the top of my lungs with 50k+ people as we won 6-0. Today I'm cheering so loudly for @JoshuaCavallo and bravo AUFC for backing him all the way.
— James (@JRicoops) October 27, 2021
Its a sad fact in this day and age that young individuals still feel pressured to hide who they are from society, well done young man, start living free from the shackles of negativity and prosper into your future
— Mark Thompson (@Thompson_CAM_10) October 27, 2021
This video shows the epitome of healthy masculinity. Thankyou Josh! "Every time someone steps up and says who they are, the world becomes a better and more interesting place."
— Lachie C (@lachieC123456) October 27, 2021
The smile Josh has when he talks about coming out makes me so happy for him. Also makes me think really positively about his club and teammates, who are clearly people worth knowing!
— Ms D 🌈 (@msdwrites) October 27, 2021
Well done, Josh. That's really brave and you're right, you shouldn't have to hide who you are. Congratulations and I hope this helps other gay footballers, in the future. #allies
— SEQ Sky Blues (@Ad_Cee_) October 27, 2021
💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
All the best from The Netherlands!
— Go Ahead Eagles 🦅 (@GAEagles) October 27, 2021
There are kids & adults who will watch this & draw strength from yours, Josh. Power to you 💪💪❤️❤️
— 🕯 RelsBels 🕯 (@rels11) October 27, 2021
Cavallo said he has been struggling with his sexuality for the past six years but he can finally say out loud he is proud to be a gay footballer.