"Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference." ~ The Road Not Taken by Robert Frost
Life is full of choices. Each one we make can send our lives in entirely different directions.
Sometimes our decisions work out for us and sometimes disaster ensues.
But let's focus on the positive.
Reddit user Kai6180 asked:
"What’s the best decision you’ve ever made?"
Relocating
"In 2012 I got an offer from Amazon. It meant leaving Arizona and all my friends and family to move to Seattle. I stressed about it for a long time and finally decided to take it for a year and then move home."
"Met a girl my first week here and married her 5 years later."
~ Lotan
Trusting Instincts
"I found [what I thought] a US Army grenade simulator as a kid. It had a pull string."
"I held it and was going to pull it but changed my mind. Instead I tied it to tree and got more string until it I had about 10 feet."
"It blew a hole in the pine tree about the size of pie tin and about 2 inches deep. The cops came. I would have lost my hand or worse."
"The year was 1968."
~ enkiloki
"Changing my major."
"I have so much more motivation for school now that I actually love what I’m studying."
~ user8203421
Isn't It Romantic?
"I don't give a f'k if it’s cheesy, but proposing to/marrying my wife."
~ Derekeys
"Right there with you, buddy."
"If this answer is cheesy then call me Mr. Rella."
~ GreenManTenTon
"Was going to say same. 34 years happy."
~ Factsaretheonlytruth
"Accepting an accidental friend request from the woman who'd eventually become my girlfriend."
~ warlordwinters
"I agreed to snap with a girl who texted me first on an Online Dating site last December. Just reached 8 months with the woman that will most likely become my wife."
"I thought she was a bot or something when she first texted me."
~ Murphy338
Setting Goals
"A bit over a year ago, I decided it was time to lose weight. Now, I had the yearning to lose weight before that, because being fat sucks."
"But I got a haircut that looked really good and I looked in the mirror and it was as if I were seeing myself for the first time. I looked at myself and thought 'I could be pretty. I really could. You know what? I'm going to give this an honest try'."
"So I did. I researched the hell out of weight loss, began calorie counting and I am proud to say that Ihave lost 127 lbs... so far."
"Now it isn't even a matter of 'Gee, will I ever reach my goal weight?' It is a matter of WHEN."
"My whole life has changed, and 95% of those changes have been positive. I have met a version of myself I never knew existed. And it is f'king beautiful."
~ Rearldeen34
"At 30 years old with a wife and two kids, go to college."
"My standard of living dramatically improved after graduating."
~ Spud9090
"I’m 36 and in my second year."
"My daughters will know a better life than I had."
~ mrw4787
Moving On
"Leaving my ex. We were horribly toxic together and I'm so much happier now."
"Give yourself time to grieve and process. Even when it's the best decision, the pain from the loss is still there. It will be ok. A new kind of ok."
~ HeyJoe459
"Needed this, just left a very one way relationship where everything was about her and now I am free but still hurts to lose that talk every single day aspect."
~ 1trickana
"Leaving and going no contact with my abusive family."
~ tvcxsxalty
"Congratulations on that, ❤️ people have no idea how hard that is."
~ loveloveyourself7
"I just did this. I knew I had to get away from them. COVID made things worse."
"I hired a company to help me fix my credit and I bought a house in a small town in a different state."
"Right now the heat is keeping me indoors but once fall comes it's going to be heaven."
~ BookmarkThat
"Right there with ya'."
"I feel much more relaxed."
~ ActualFirelord
"Divorcing my husband just short of 50 years!"
"No more negative influence."
~ jennifer3333
"My aunt divorced her husband after 38 years and she has been a new person ever since."
"You can tell the weight was lifted."
~ rb928
Facing Addiction
"Stopping drinking alcohol."
"Today I have my life back and I am very grateful."
~ Outrageous_Duty_8738
"Getting sober from alcohol - 1,290 days but who’s countin!"
~ slycooper89
"Quit smoking and drinking, started to exercise!"
~ PeachFuzzTamer
"I quit drinking and smoking on the same day about 14 years ago....it was a rough couple of weeks..."
~ Psychological-Joke22
Waiting
"After college I started interviewing for graphic design jobs, and I realized 'Oh, this would be excruciating corporate bullsh*t'.”
"I had a moment in time where I knew I needed to decide between a miserable “grownup” job that pays well after a few years, or just working wherever and focusing on enjoying life."
"I wanted to live life, not devote myself to joyless adulthood and a career. I ended up meeting a lot of awesome people, including close friends I still hang out with a decade later, and making countless memories I cherish."
"Recently I started focusing on making more money and being a serious adult, and it feels like the right time for that."
~ UStoAUambassador
Unconditional Love
"Getting a Golden Retriever puppy.
"That was 11 years ago and now I have 3. So much happiness and love."
~ the_best_taylor
" Animals help in ways I don't think some humans really understand."
"My girls [cats] act like they hate me but they are always there for me...for one minute."
~ Flamesclaws
Like we said, life is full of choices.
So which ones worked out well for you?
